ddlovexx Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 Hey LS, For the past week I've been having ex dreams... wah! I'm over him and don't think about him much. I miss being close to someone/being in a relationship but I don't miss HIM because he's not the guy I always thought him to be. He left me for another girl so I know he's not thinking about me either. The other day I had a dream I was at a party with friends and he showed up and all I kept saying was "Why would he show up here when he doesn't know anybody? It has to be because he wants to see me." And I remember him showing me the new things he did to his car but I don't remember if he actually spoke to me in the dream or not. All I can remember from my dream last night is that we became friends again and he unblocked me on facebook and things were just okay. I'm sure there was more to the dream but I don't remember, and I woke up feeling like I want to be friends with him. I also just got a notification on my phone saying "Challenge (him) in a game of blahblah" and I was just like... really??? It's odd. I have half a mind to try to make peace and speak with him even though he was a complete d-bag to me, but I guess it's probably not worth it. I think I would feel okay but who knows, I might feel worse after. I don't know how I feel about the dreams. They say you dream about the last thing on your mind before you fall asleep, but I really haven't been thinking of him much so I think they're just dreams. Any input from someone who thinks more of dreams?
BarbecueMan666 Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 I like to think my dreams of my ex came out when I stopped talking about her with friends or family. Subconsciously I'd dream about certain things happening - could be awful imagery, or it could be as simple as just saying hello, high-fiving and drinking coffee with a pleasant convo. I've been broken up with my ex for, close to 6 months now - and she has a new partner - I don't tend to dream of her much, but every now and then I may. I think naturally when you're awake and you just choose not to talk about it - sometimes you need to let it out, and you do it in your sleep. Just purging the idea almost. Wouldn't recommend contacting - My ex wasn't nice initially at the breakup, and I have to admit the last time I made any sort of contact it wasn't any better so .
Author ddlovexx Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 Yeah, maybe it's just my mind purging the rest of my thoughts of him. In the dreams he's always doing what I wish he would do, ya know? It's weird. I'm okay though, I think it's just heavy because dreams tend to feel real. I don't think I should contact him either. Though I'm the type to get over it and want to be friends (I'm not bitter at all at this point) he'll probably never be mature enough for that so it's a lost cause. Ohwell, onward! Thanks for the input.
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