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Last night while we were dancing she told me I'm the only one for her and she thinks about me every moment of the day. She referred to me as the "man I love" and before she went to bed texted me "Sweet dreams my love". She's indirectly saying "I love you" no?

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Is this the crazy one from OKC?

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Yes that's her.

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Is this the crazy one from OKC?

 

Yes that's her.

 

:laugh::rolleyes:

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I bet even though she's said all that to you, if you told her you love her she would be all "wtf omg you're moving way too fast" :laugh:

why are you still dating this chick again?

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Sex is fantastic and I enjoy spending time with her. Nothing more than that right now. So to my question, are these intentional things she's saying hoping that I'm going to reciprocate?

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Sex is fantastic and I enjoy spending time with her. Nothing more than that right now. So to my question, are these intentional things she's saying hoping that I'm going to reciprocate?

 

LOL, you're asking US what some crazy chick is telling YOU?

 

What's next...want us to give you this weeks winning Powerball numbers?

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Yikes, I read your BPD thread. You must be as nutty to want to mess with the likes of her.

 

How does one decipher what a "crazy" person thinks and says?

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Sex is fantastic and I enjoy spending time with her. Nothing more than that right now. So to my question, are these intentional things she's saying hoping that I'm going to reciprocate?

 

Very clearly. I would never tell someone "goodnight my love" or "woman I love" without already having said "i love you."

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Sex is fantastic and I enjoy spending time with her. Nothing more than that right now. So to my question, are these intentional things she's saying hoping that I'm going to reciprocate?

 

The simplest and most honest answer to your question just has to be who knows? The process of communication is a four-part process:

 

  1. What is said.
  2. What is heard.
  3. What is understood.
  4. What was intended.

When successful communication happens, then all 4 stages of the process are in alignment. However, more often than not, that does not happen. Where the personality of one of the participants is recognised as being, ahem, somewhat unpredictable, then the prospect for successful communication is that much more remote.

 

You could ask for a definition, preferably in writing, ideally notarised and dated. However, the probability might be that it had a lifespan that would last as long as it took for the ink to dry. Sometimes life is just that way. Don't assume too much even when the invitation to seems to be wide open.

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LOL, you're asking US what some crazy chick is telling YOU?

 

What's next...want us to give you this weeks winning Powerball numbers?

 

Then 9/10 people on this forum are certifiable. Do you know how absurd most threads are?

 

PS you are clearly one of the sane ones here yet I wonder why you enjoy spending so much time with the inmates...

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