henderson14 Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 I met a girl out last night. She hit on me. We ended up making out and had our hands all over each other. I've never felt chemistry like this with a girl I've met at a bar or even ever. She gave me her number, reminded me countless times to call her tomorrow. Then she called me later that same night on her way home. So I was worried for a few reasons. One is the obvious reason of meeting while drinking at a bar. The next morning you usually feel a different way. The next reason is big I guess. I looked her up on facebook and it says she is "in a relationship." I'd hate to be a rebound guy if she just got dumped or something. Now I am defiantly wondering if she will call me back? I just called this morning and left a message. Whats your take on this situation?
TaraMaiden Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 Wait until you talk to her. If she IS in a relationship, tell her to call you when she's single, and you don't intend trespassing, but that you like her and enjoyed the connection. Don't go there. Really - don't.
Author henderson14 Posted June 16, 2013 Author Posted June 16, 2013 So it was all OK while you were making out, with your hands all over her....but now you want to contradict your actions?? It was definitely OK. I prefer not to meet at a bar relationship wise, but people don't have control over how they meet. I'm not contradicting anything. I'm pursuing her.
Author henderson14 Posted June 16, 2013 Author Posted June 16, 2013 You just wrote you were worried about it because you met her at a bar...now you totally contradict yourself and say you prefer it. Which is it?? What thread are you reading. Re read it. I said I "prefer not to." Go troll someone else's thread.
Nemoralis Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 So it still goes back to the original situation then.....WHY did you make out with a woman, put your hands all over her, and take her number "IF" you dont like to meet women in a bar?????? Did someone hold a gun to your head and force you to do something you didnt want to do???? What is so difficult to understand? He prefers not to meet girls a bars for obvious reasons, but he is open to it this time because of the connection he felt. He's still a little worried about it, but he's pursuing her nonetheless. Stop derailing the topic! OP - it's possible she's in a relationship and was getting an ego boost from you last night. If this is the case, she probably won't call back and you'll have your answer. If she does call back, just casually ask her if she's single. If she is, then go for it. If not, cut your losses and move on.
shexy Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 I think she was drunk and made out with you with no intention of dumping her boyfriend for you. She was just out partying. Reason #758494 I don't recommend trying to meet people or anything other than hookups in a bar.
StanMusial Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 I met a girl out last night. She hit on me. We ended up making out and had our hands all over each other. I've never felt chemistry like this with a girl I've met at a bar or even ever. She gave me her number, reminded me countless times to call her tomorrow. Then she called me later that same night on her way home. So I was worried for a few reasons. One is the obvious reason of meeting while drinking at a bar. The next morning you usually feel a different way. The next reason is big I guess. I looked her up on facebook and it says she is "in a relationship." I'd hate to be a rebound guy if she just got dumped or something. Now I am defiantly wondering if she will call me back? I just called this morning and left a message. Whats your take on this situation? Why did you even look her up on Facebook? Why can't people just be normal and meet someone? Do you want to try dating a girl that goes out and gets hammered and makes out with other guys? If so, good luck.
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