caseinpoint Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 When two straight people have been friends for a while, does it usually mean each of them has been "friendzoned?" That "if it was going to happen, we would have dated a long time ago" is true? That there is no recourse?
Appleness Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 Not really, sometimes people do change or time has faded the red flags they have of you in their head or whatever shyness has evaporated. The thing about friends in most cases is that you know too much about them and some of what they told you has made you say to yourself "Wow, I can't believe they did that to his/her girlfriend/boyfriend, I am so never going to put myself in that position." If this is the resistance on their part, you have to wait for that to go away or show them that you've changed.
TaraMaiden Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 When two straight people have been friends for a while, does it usually mean each of them has been "friendzoned?" That "if it was going to happen, we would have dated a long time ago" is true? That there is no recourse? Is this the same guy you wrote about in March 2012? You seem to be fixated on this mutual attraction thing... I sense a lot of wishful-thinking going on here, on your part..... Your thread history would indicate you've been hung up on this for a while now. You need to put this to one side and focus outside work. A relationship with a co-worker...more often than not, sadly, is a bad idea.
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