ice7990 Posted October 12, 2004 Posted October 12, 2004 i really need a womans perspective on this one. its been 7 years since they broke up and now she starts to develope feelings again for him. from everything that her friends have told me, he wont take care of her son as well as i did cause he is japanese. that she doesnt like dating japanese men and that her ex has been back in japan for over 7 now and prob changed alot since the time they were going out. when they were going out, she didnt have a child and now things will be very different. if things dont work out and her son isnt happy or she can see how he has changed and remember that it was him that cheated on her and left her, will she think about the happiness that we had, the way i always made her feel special and how happy her son is with me. will she remember the love that was there and how much i still love her now. do these even come to play and do women realize that happiness when things dont work out?? wat im trying to ask is, will she come back to me when things dont work out or go looking for another. the thing i know about her is that she told me that isnt the type to go looking cause she has her son's happiness to worry about. wat do you ladies think???
overseas2004 Posted October 13, 2004 Posted October 13, 2004 Basically anything can happen, it depends on teh kind of woman she is....And I dont know her and neither does anyone on this site. But you need to ask yourself some questions besides do you love her. One of the key ones, is will you be able to trust her after this? She left you and she may leave you again. Will you be able to cope with her and not tear your lives apart because she did this, if and when she comes back. I wouldn't but you may be one of those extra tolerant persons. You should be looking for someone else. She is not good for you.
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