Jedi Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 I am a very shy guy, and I'm into girls as much as the next straight guy, but I get embarrassed. This man eater who is not attractive kept hitting on me at college, kept complimenting my facial hair. ( I have the ruff look, and I have a lot of facial hair for a 18 year old) Thankfully she must of got the message that I'm not interested. These girls that are in a business course kept smiling at me, plus this girl who looked pretty good from what I saw shouted 'You're fit!" ( means hot in UK) And just a couple of days ago, on my out of college these girls on a bench were saying 'hello!" and I didn't think they were talking to me, and they shouted hello again & I looked up and they were looking at me, and I said "alright!" ( UK people say it as a greeting) and I walked on. I'm too shy to do anything more than say hi and walk on.
Appleness Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 I think all the female attention is indicative of you being a good-looking boy. Now if you're question is more of what you should do about said attention, well then that's more of a matter of personal preference. Is there someone that you like too? If so, luck is already in your favor.
Els Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 Is there a complaint? Other than 'rough' being difficult to spell, that is?
Author Jedi Posted June 16, 2013 Author Posted June 16, 2013 Is there a complaint? Other than 'rough' being difficult to spell, that is? I KNEW it. I was debating if "rough" was meaning for that term. Yeah, I have grammar ocd too lol.
Author Jedi Posted June 16, 2013 Author Posted June 16, 2013 I think all the female attention is indicative of you being a good-looking boy. Now if you're question is more of what you should do about said attention, well then that's more of a matter of personal preference. Is there someone that you like too? If so, luck is already in your favor. I get easily embarrassed from it all. I'm going to a large college in a few months, so there's going to be a lot of girls there. I find it difficult because I was home-schooled so I didn't really talk to anyone other than my family. So all this past year at my college, this female attention that I get makes me embarrassed, and shy. ( hard to understand if you are a out-going type person.)
Cutiepie1976 Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 (edited) I KNEW it. I was debating if "rough" was meaning for that term. Yeah, I have grammar ocd too lol. More like spelling OCD unless you were referring to a dog. But why quibble. So far there doesn't seem to be much of a question tucked in anywhere in your posts. Were you just looking to rant about the embarassment and difficulties your general gorgeousness has brought upon you? What do you seek, if anything, from us? Do you have a specific question? Edited June 16, 2013 by Cutiepie1976 1
Author Jedi Posted June 16, 2013 Author Posted June 16, 2013 More like spelling OCD unless you were referring to a dog. But why quibble. So far there doesn't seem to be much of a question tucked in anywhere in your posts. Were you just looking to rant about the embarassment and difficulties your general gorgeousness has brought upon you? What do you seek, if anything, from us? Do you have a specific question? I said many times about getting embarrassed. Maybe I'm looking for advice on how to stop getting embarrassed & shy? ... You don't have to post. Don't waste your precious time..
Cutiepie1976 Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 You've been home schooled. With greater exposure, you'll get more used to interacting with others and become more comfortable. It just takes time. No shortcuts. Perhaps start by smiling and returning the greeting when people greet you or say something to you. Don't worry about the nervousness or fear you feel. Just go over and introduce yourself. Ask them who they are. That's what I have always done (well, unless it's guys just wolf calling in which case they're ignored). Join a group or club that does something of interest to you. Meeting people in smaller groups in more controlled settings might make things easier for you since you're less outgoing. College can be a ton of fun. You'll make some of your closest friends there. Make sure you enjoy it. It may feel overwhelming at first, but try not to shut down.
Author Jedi Posted June 16, 2013 Author Posted June 16, 2013 You've been home schooled. With greater exposure, you'll get more used to interacting with others and become more comfortable. It just takes time. No shortcuts. Perhaps start by smiling and returning the greeting when people greet you or say something to you. Don't worry about the nervousness or fear you feel. Just go over and introduce yourself. Ask them who they are. That's what I have always done (well, unless it's guys just wolf calling in which case they're ignored). Join a group or club that does something of interest to you. Meeting people in smaller groups in more controlled settings might make things easier for you since you're less outgoing. College can be a ton of fun. You'll make some of your closest friends there. Make sure you enjoy it. It may feel overwhelming at first, but try not to shut down. Thank you. That's great advice
Cutiepie1976 Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 Helps to have a question to answer. And don't forget to smile even when you feel terrified. The more you approach people, the easier it becomes.
Author Jedi Posted June 16, 2013 Author Posted June 16, 2013 Helps to have a question to answer. And don't forget to smile even when you feel terrified. The more you approach people, the easier it becomes. That is true
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