KillerFish Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 This is something I would really like to improve, it happens in everything, my love life, my professional life etc. One minute I think one thing, the next I completely change my opinion. I think I would be a better person if I could change this aspect, does anybody have any advice on what I could do to overcome this? 1
Author KillerFish Posted June 16, 2013 Author Posted June 16, 2013 Actually I am 29 years old. Lately I have been a bit depressed and insecure also, social anxiety, all that stuff, that probably doesn't help huh?
aliceinthebox Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Change your mindset. Rather than be fearful of making a mistake be more fearful about regretting not having done something. Making mistakes is a part of life and it builds character. As long as you don't kill anyone or go to jail (basically doing something irreversible) you will find your mistakes as lessons learned or fond memories, 99% of the time you won't regret it so just DO (don't mindlessly act, but act thoughtfully in a timely manner).
porcupine211 Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 I find myself having difficulty making decisions too. I think it means that there are parts of me that I am not sure about. I think the sure thing to do is to follow your heart and listen to your gut. Which can be difficult because internal conflict is bound to happen if you do not know yourself well. It's important to be honest with yourself if you are simply confused. It's ok to simply not know what the right decision is at the time. Do what feels right and soon you will figure out what you do and do not like. Remember, you have to live with your decisions, so be kind and respectful to yourself and others. Best of luck
pink_sugar Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 I also have this issue due to some negative things that have traumatized me. Try to see these mistakes as ways to make improvements in your life.
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