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it has been about eight months since she dumped me, and apart from two breadcrumbs in the first week after being dumped, which I abruptly put an end to by telling her "don't contact me unless it is to say you want to try again" I had heard NOTHING from her.

 

don't get me wrong, I still think about her a lot and miss her, but I had gotten to the acceptance stage and realised she was never coming back and I was learning to live with that.

 

and just now I see her on the train! I did NOTHING, I immediately turned the other way and walked away, and I am 99% certain she did not see me.

 

But I feel set back and it has immediately brought back all these memories that I was trying to forget... for one, in the moment I saw her (it was only a moment) she looked even more beautiful than I remember her being, and even though it is probably my mind just playing tricks, it still hurt.

 

It also made me realise that I miss her and am not over her and that no matter how much I pretend I am over her, really I am not. Damn it, why didn't I just get on the next train?

 

Has this ever happened to you - one single moment brings you back to square one of being dumped? I'd actually half-convinced myself that she was dead because I had not seen her in so long I kind of pretended she simply was dead as it made it easier to get over her - but nope she is alive and well and I am back to square one!

 

Being dumped sucks!

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Whoo boy, do I understand.

 

It's definitely quite the temperature check of where you really are, eh?

 

I had something similar happen the other day (I posted about it). It sucks. Threw my whole weekend off, but I'm rebalancing and know it will be okay.

 

And you will be okay too my friend. :)

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U did it once U can do it again just remember that being dumped is tough but she did it to you and you will to someone else circle of life.

But for now hugs for your hurt until you love again it will always hurt and once you do you will not even remember sting of it

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