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Hey guys ,

 

my boyfriend of half a year started acting distant a few weeks ago and broke up with me out of the blue 6 days ago. The break up was incredibly friendly, almost doesn't feel real. He just said he doesn't get more and more excited every time he sees me (we live about 2 hours away from each other , both finishing up university so it's a long distance relationship ) and he said that can't say he loves me.

 

I'm really having a rough time dealing with this because I liked and still like him a lot , we've met eachother's families and everything was going so good.

 

I've been doing the "no contact" thing for the past 6 days and he hasn't contacted me either.

 

I really want him back , any tips or advice?

 

Thanks

CB

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Nothing more you can do beyond what you have already done. Your only option is to stay No Contact and accept it's over. If he decides that he's made a mistake, he will contact you and let you know in clear terms. You must not contact him or you will face disappointment. Until then you have to let it go and keep yourself occupied so as to not dwell on it. Best of luck...

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Thanks, I'm just having a rough day dealing with this . it gets better though

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I've been doing the "no contact" thing for the past 6 days and he hasn't contacted me either.

 

100% chance he's with someone else, or pursuing someone else.

 

No such thing as "out of the blue". He didn't just wake up and decide "hey, I'm going to break up with Bradley today". He's been thinking about it, rehearsing it, asking his friends about how to do it, maybe debating it, but it definitely wasn't out of the blue for him.

 

The LDR points system (write this down): if you're an 8 out of 10, you lose 2 points for being long distance (more points based on distance). So if he meets a local 6 or higher, you're not out of it but you're in trouble. It's called POD points (p*ssy on demand).

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LDR points, is this the Mystery Method? lol

 

It's from the MMSL Primer (the LDR is my personal touch). Come on Love, Mystery Method is entry level/attraction building gimmicks bro!! If that's the kind of stuff you're reading no wonder you're still in a rut. PM me, I'll guide you in the right direction ;-).

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Hey guys ,

 

my boyfriend of half a year started acting distant a few weeks ago and broke up with me out of the blue 6 days ago. The break up was incredibly friendly, almost doesn't feel real. He just said he doesn't get more and more excited every time he sees me (we live about 2 hours away from each other , both finishing up university so it's a long distance relationship ) and he said that can't say he loves me.

 

I'm really having a rough time dealing with this because I liked and still like him a lot , we've met eachother's families and everything was going so good.

 

I've been doing the "no contact" thing for the past 6 days and he hasn't contacted me either.

 

I really want him back , any tips or advice?

 

Thanks

CB

 

he dumped you. if he wants to be with you, he's going to have to be the one to come back to you.

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