Dundas Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 (edited) Is it possible for a bad break-up to turn into a clean breakup? I've said this story a million times on here, but my high school sweetheart of over 2 1/2 years left me two months ago... for her younger brother's friend after we'd been hanging out with him for a few weeks. The breakup was really bad, a good 75% of the badness of the breakup was on my part, too. Which anyone can understand I'm sure. After two months, I'm able to see the whole picture. I do respect her as a person very much. She's a great girl and deserves all the happiness in the world, but I do wish I was able to give her that happiness. I don't want to go into details, but it was a very bad breakup - it could've been way nastier, though. I did all the wrong things, like begging, pleading, confronting. We work as home health aides and she relieves my shift every Saturday afternoon, so it made work pretty hard at first, as I kept trying to talk to her and argue with her at the workplace. I do love her, I do miss her - she did hurt me, but the only thing I can't yet forgive is how she went about it... how she led me on as if she were happy with me until the last minute. I have stopped all communication and have found new friends. The only communication we have now is occasional texting about work and a now semi-awkward/friendly work-related chit-chat when she relieves my shift. I believe the break-up is much better now, and I'm much more confident in myself. Yes, I want her back - but I've given up all hope of that ever happening, so I decided to quit trying and just move on... like she asked. Although we don't bring up the past anymore so I'll never know for sure... Over time, can the dumper grow back respect for the one they dumped and become yet again interested...? It's far-fetched, but I at least don't want her to keep the image of me crying in front of her every time she thinks of me. Edited June 16, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Paragraphs.
Justletgo Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 She has to see you having fun in your life, probably with other women..... Yea it's pathetic. But it's the truth. Be attractive. And there was nothing wrong with begging/crying etc. Thats what usually happens when someone gets dumped by someone they love.
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