LilGirlandOW Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 My MM says to me that he had known me for longer than I him, and even knows things I never told him before, and no its not a facebook thing, my facebook is limited to very close friends and family, we share no mutual friends and live in neighboring, but different towns... he has lived in his town his whole life, me, i just moved here recently. Creepy? or what would y'all take of that?
BrokenPrincess Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 What? Like in another life? Or like he stalked you somehow before meeting you? You could not have let that go by without asking him what he meant, right? 1
spice4life Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Very weird. What is he a cop or something investigating someone you know?
TheOW Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Do u have a reputation ? ... Not being nasty but if u have a bit of a chequered past, people talk - especially neighbouring towns
HonestNeurotic Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Didn't you use to work together? Are there people that would know you in your industry? You'd be surprised at how few "degrees of separation" there are between people. Also, even if you are not linked via facebook - so much other information is out there. You'd have to be a bit more specific as to what you mean. i.e., he actually KNOWS things about you in real life - or it's more ethereal, as in he feels like he's always known you. It's not that hard at all to find out information on anyone if they are well versed in internet savvy and have a few dollars to buy information. I know that my MM is actually not that far removed from my real life - i.e., he works with people that have worked with people that I used to work with. As for creepy? I guess that depends on how he came about the information. Was he vetting you? To see that you are who you say that you are? Or just curious? I check people out myself. I trust no one.
Author LilGirlandOW Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 lol no i dont have a bad reputation, or anything. He said hes "seen me around" before the day we met when i started working at his workplace... maybe it was how he said it that i dont know had me wondering how creepy is that... yes it must have been the delivery of the message
spice4life Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 (edited) lol no i dont have a bad reputation, or anything. He said hes "seen me around" before the day we met when i started working at his workplace... maybe it was how he said it that i dont know had me wondering how creepy is that... yes it must have been the delivery of the message If that's the case I wouldn't really find that creepy. That means he thought you were attractive when he first saw you and happen to notice when you were around. He probably asked other people who knew you some questions before the two of you actually met. I would lump that into the "what guys do when find someone attractive" category. Now if he did a full blown background check to gain knowledge about you before actually meeting you then I would be worried. Edited June 15, 2013 by spice4life
waterwoman Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 You could just ask him? Something along the the lines of 'what do you mean by that?' It seems quite a simple puzzle to solve.
Realist3 Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 My MM says to me that he had known me for longer than I him, and even knows things I never told him before, and no its not a facebook thing, my facebook is limited to very close friends and family, we share no mutual friends and live in neighboring, but different towns... he has lived in his town his whole life, me, i just moved here recently. Creepy? or what would y'all take of that? I would suggest that you might be over thinking things a bit. It is not unusual for people that are attracted to someone else to do a little background checking before they make their move. I know women that do an official background check before they go on a first date.
TheOW Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 When my xMM first noticed me he said to all is friends how good looking he thought I was, this was at least 8 years before our A started. He always had a crush on me and u likewise, should have stayed that way actually.
Pierre Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 My MM says to me that he had known me for longer than I him, and even knows things I never told him before, and no its not a facebook thing, my facebook is limited to very close friends and family, we share no mutual friends and live in neighboring, but different towns... he has lived in his town his whole life, me, i just moved here recently. Creepy? or what would y'all take of that? Sounds creepy. Did you ask what is going on?
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