BanditK Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Hey all, In January, I broke up with my gal of two years. We'd be on and off and LD. I started missing her in March but she had a new bf and that ended shortly after I poured my feelings to her. We talked awhile but she had moved on. We tried being friends but my feelings kept me on the roller coaster. We were talking about going on dates and trying to rekindle the magic when she abruptly text me one day and mentioned that she didn't want to be tied to us since she had just moved to California. She said she felt conflicted and didn't know what she wanted. I told her if she wasn't feeling it then it was ok. Haven't heard from her in a week. I've deleted her number but my phone still hangs onto it for some reason. I also threw away all of our photos and such. My question.... Should I e-mail her and apologize for how pathetic and needy I acted at the end? I'm embarrassed by it and I would hate for her final memory of me to be that I was a pansy and wuss. Thoughts?
veggirl Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 No! You're just looking for an excuse to contact her. You don't need to remind her you were a pansy or whatever you called yourself....THAT will make you look still emotional and whatnot. Silence says a LOT more. 1
Author BanditK Posted June 16, 2013 Author Posted June 16, 2013 Understood..... I suppose it was just a matter of pride for me. I'll keep my distance and see if she ever says anything. Thanks!
Author BanditK Posted June 16, 2013 Author Posted June 16, 2013 Do you think she will try to get ahold of me again?
aisuru Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 Of course she'll get in touch with you again. But that may be in five years. So in the meantime, you get on with your life. End of story.
veggirl Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 The fact that you're asking if she'll contact you again is another reason not to text her...you aren't over her and any contact with her will set you back.
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