lovexo Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 so I met someone on Monday we were talking and I asked him last name (so I could look him up on facebook) turns out he doesn't have a facebook but his brother does so I added & messaged his brother telling him to give the guy I like my number I guess he did because he called me (from work) on weds but I couldnt answer & that was it haven't heard from him at all .. any advice on whats going on? why would he call me from work & not text me from his phone? should I message his brother again to see whats up? I dont wanna seem desperate & creepy but I have no patience to wait PS: his bro read my messages on facebook but never replied to me
KatZee Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 So you met someone Monday, he didn't bother asking for your number, he didn't give you his, you did however stalk him on Facebook, add his family member, put his brother in the middle of whatever it is you're doing, and you don't think he's just a little creeped out? 5
Author lovexo Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 So you met someone Monday, he didn't bother asking for your number, he didn't give you his, you did however stalk him on Facebook, add his family member, put his brother in the middle of whatever it is you're doing, and you don't think he's just a little creeped out? I know its weird but isnt that what facebooks for? I mean he seemed interested but too shy to give me his number & i'm too shy too so thats why I did it on facebook & if he is creeped out why call?
undergroundlife13 Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 How do you know it was him who called you from work?
Author lovexo Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 How do you know it was him who called you from work? I looked up the number & its where he works it's a store they have no reason to call me lol
undergroundlife13 Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Why? Haha he called her from his work, so whats wrong with calling back?
Author lovexo Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 Why? Haha he called her from his work, so whats wrong with calling back? i'd be too embarassed to call him at work
undergroundlife13 Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Well the only other thing is wait then, dont contact his brother, if i were you id delete him unless youve met him, and its possible this guy has a gf. Who doesnt have a facebook? I know some people dont, but its really unlikely...how old is he?
snowflakes88 Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 DO NOT, DO NOT, DO NOT message his brother again!! 1
Author lovexo Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 I was gonna wait until the weekend is over to delete the brother & the guy I like is 24
Author lovexo Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 Howd you meet him? I met him at the store he works at we started talking
KatZee Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 If a guy is into you, he's going to get your number. He's not going to let you slip away. You're not going to have to look him up on social media to add members of his family. You've met him ONCE and now it just comes off really creepy. And no, that's not what social media is for. That's something you don't want to do early on. Add FB and then stalk said FB. Especially contacting family members. I'd be so creeped out that I'd never talk to a guy again if he did that with. I actually just shuddered. 6
undergroundlife13 Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Then why not go back in the store to get something? He doesnt seem too inteterested tho, why would you ask for his last name and not his number? Last name is worse.. 1
Author lovexo Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 If a guy is into you, he's going to get your number. He's not going to let you slip away. You're not going to have to look him up on social media to add members of his family. You've met him ONCE and now it just comes off really creepy. And no, that's not what social media is for. That's something you don't want to do early on. Add FB and then stalk said FB. Especially contacting family members. I'd be so creeped out that I'd never talk to a guy again if he did that with. I actually just shuddered. but i'm small & adorable totally harmless looking it would be creepy if a guy did that
Author lovexo Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 Then why not go back in the store to get something? He doesnt seem too inteterested tho, why would you ask for his last name and not his number? Last name is worse.. well now i'm just embarrased if he's not interested
undergroundlife13 Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Obviously theres SOME interest or he wouldntve called. Maybe hes waiting for you to call back?
Author lovexo Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 Obviously theres SOME interest or he wouldntve called. Maybe hes waiting for you to call back? but I dont get the calling me from work why not use HIS cell phone
undergroundlife13 Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Yeah that is weird, thats why i think he might have a gf
HokeyReligions Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 but I dont get the calling me from work why not use HIS cell phone If someone stalked me on FB I wouldn't want them to have my cell number.
Author lovexo Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 If someone stalked me on FB I wouldn't want them to have my cell number. I know where he works wouldn't that be creepier? obviously if i'm not "stalking" him at work I wouldn't bother him on the phone either
Cutiepie1976 Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 (edited) It's his place of employment. There's not much he can do about your behavior there. If someone stalked me on FB I wouldn't want them to have my cell number. Nor would I. Poor boundaries. I know its weird but isnt that what facebooks for? I mean he seemed interested but too shy to give me his number & i'm too shy too so thats why I did it on facebook & if he is creeped out why call? LOL. If he was already talking to you, and didn't provide his number, and didn't ask for yours...he's not shy. He's just NOT interested. Don't go track his brother down and send messages that way. Did anything come out of this call? Did he ask you on a date? In all your attempts at communication, have you ever gotten his number? Any way to contact him directly outside the store despite your obvious interest? It's near impossible to contact him after your conversations, isn't it? Because he didn't want you to. He's not interested...and now you're stalking. Facebook is to communicate and share your life with your friends. I wouldn't use it track down the relatives of random strangers you like so that they can convey your messages. Just drop it. Edited June 15, 2013 by Cutiepie1976 2
Author lovexo Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 It's his place of employment. There's not much he can do about your behavior there. Nor would I. Poor boundaries. LOL. If he was already talking to you, and didn't provide his number, and didn't ask for yours...he's not shy. He's just NOT interested. Don't go track his brother down and send messages that way. Did anything come out of this call? Did he ask you on a date? In all your attempts at communication, have you ever gotten his number? Any way to contact him directly outside the store despite your obvious interest? It's near impossible to contact him after your conversations, isn't it? Because he didn't want you to. He's not interested...and now you're stalking. Facebook is to communicate and share your life with your friends. I wouldn't use it track down the relatives of random strangers you like so that they can convey your messages. Just drop it. oh well next then
Cutiepie1976 Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 It happens. You tried. No need to be embarrassed or anything. Just know that you don't have to work that hard when he is interested. 2
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