senoritabonita Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 (edited) My bf and I have been together for 1.5 years. We met in Paris (where he lives-hes Italian) while I was visiting a friend (I live in Madrid -I am Canadian Italian) we see each other very often and plan to move in together in a few weeks. Anyway, last summer while living with him for a month, I decided to ask my friend in Paris to join us for a night out with bfs friend. all through the night there was flirting going on with them both. She would touch his arm, impress him with her Italian...he would smile at her and she'd be blushing...they went off talking in French for like 20 min..I just had a bad taste about it. my bf had already expressed to his friends that he thought my friend was really pretty. Even his female friend knew about her and he'd make inappropriate jokes about her because I confided in him that she hadnt had sex in three years. He kept saying that he wanted to help her...he just was obsessed with the mystery of how SHE could not get sex for three years. Cut to this year. She met a guy from Madrid while visiting me and was very eager to do this back and forth thing. So last night my bf and her were randomly on the same flight. She told me she was coming to Madrid and was at the airport so I.just put two and two together. I told her oh I'll see u at the airport then (I work closely and was going to.get him) I wrote to him telling him she was on the plane and that I felt stupid that I have to be worried. (hes been unfaithful in the past) he assured me there was. nada to worry about. He was coming to Madrid for me. I did not agree since they are both so weird about each other (she won't discuss him anymore and he's been referring to her as garbage). I still have this awful feeling. Anyway he lands, kisses me and says let's go. I had already seen my friends bf so I said no lets wait...I want to c u two together. he was like common! Anyway she comes out and ignored him kissed her guy then we all made a bit of small talk and parted ways. Anyway, he goes insane on me. He was so sad an upset I said "why, because you saw her with another guy?" and he just went nuts screaming at me calling me stupid infront of everyone on the metro. HE then said I needed to apologize because I was being disrespectful by making him see her and watching them. I get what I did was a bit silly but does that justify anyone going crazy like that on another person? keep in mind I do say some mean things to him from time to time.. example ysterday he kept calling me stupid and I said "thats why I got a job in Paris in one second and u havent even started looking for one in Canada" (this is where we wanted to end up eventually) he said my comment was so hurtful. I dont want to hurt anyone but I feel like our anger is just one big spiral. Edited June 15, 2013 by senoritabonita
ddlovexx Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 "He's been unfaithful in the past." This sounds like a game... my opinion is to walk away. A relationship is supposed to grow and this seems like an annoying/crappy situation to be in.
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