bellasue Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 And I don't mean in a "we're getting back together" kind of way. I ran into xMM in one of the places we both hang out at. Before everyone yells at me about breaking NC.......we actually had a civil conversation which we haven't had since dday. NOTHING about getting back together. Just a general question and answer 10 minute talk. I felt sooooo much better about the end after this talk. It might just be that seeing him in any way provided the needed "fix" but for the first time in two months, I didn't worry, wasn't anxious, etc. I completely felt free of him. I wished him well and walked away. Personally I think closure is huge and if half of these men were to try that......well it would cause a lot of problems. I realize after dday most of the time it isn't possible, but I have no regrets about talking to him yesterday. I think in OUR case it may have helped him too. So, anyone else every had an experience like this? 1
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