girl saying she doesn't have enough time for a bf after going out for like 5 times

[VonDan]

I thought I was going out with this girl I had a crush on in sec

1(currently in sec 5 or grade 11) and now I''ve been seeing lot's of

her. So anyways, I ask her out and she's like sure let's go to this

restaurant. So when she picks me up to go to her house and get a lift,

we're talking and then she says something in the likes of "well I've

never talked to my parents about dating [she just had an argument with

her mom, I asked what happend]". So I'm thinking well then, I'm set

because we go and I found her super responsive. So two days ago, we go

to this movie and were like rubbing hands and what not. After the

movie I suggested to go to Tim Horton's for coffee since we still had

and hour before our respective parents came to get us. As we're

walking, she says hi to lot's of friends and then while waiting in

line at Timmy's ( or tim horton's for all you non-Canadians ) one of

her friends asks if I'm her boyfriend and she says no. Her friend asks

again and she keeps saying no. So i'm like what happend, right? When I

ask her why am I not her boyfriend she replys something like "...I

don't have time, by the way do you like those mini-cakes?" I guess

she's avoiding the question because we might still be within earshot

of her friend so I call her up today and talk to her for liek ten

minutes on random stuff and then go for the question...She answers she

doesn't have time, and when i ask her if she doesn't have time for me

or in general and she says in general. so i'm like we can still try

and work it out and then I say something like well i thought we could

take it to the next step. then she says awww I'm soo sorry, you're

making it so hard for me!!! so i'm like fine but still, then she says

she wants to stay single for a while so i'm like ok. then she says she

has to go do homework so I say bye and that's it.....what can I do?

HELP!!!!

[Swanny]

She could be doing what every other women does and says "Lets be friends". The important thing to remember is it's ok sometimes... im sorta in the same situation...

 

umm... not much to say here... tis a tuff one..

 

whatever happens, happens. Thats what u should remember.... just let it go and see where it takes u. If she wants to do more stuff with u than she cares for u. Dont be fake or try to get into the same things as her, it only works in the movies.

[VonDan]

um so you mean that i should like not call her or anything unless she calls me, or play along with the just be friends?

[Swanny]

play along with the "just be friends" thingo.... shes prolly looking for some fun.

 

how old r u vondan?

[VonDan]

16, so like show her fun and then eventualy ask her again? cuz i'm already going to this concert with her on the 4 of november and maybe just maybe i was thinking we can have a bit more "privileges" what do you think?

[Papillon]

She's full of crap. Just stay friends.

[VonDan]

So you think I have no possibility of becoming her boyfriend?

[DJ_Dork]

it's just friends man. nothing else.

[winnieloveshunny]

Well, I think her intentions are quite clear. This girl treats you as a friend ONLY. She's just finding an excuse by saying that she has no time.