Tinie Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Is there such a thing? I saw it on a thread that got very few replies and nobody really addressed that. Can a guy be interested in a girl and not reply to her messages? I can't remember the thread's story but it was something along the lines of a shy guy who was doing some approaching and his body language seemed to be indicating he was interested, but when the girl msged him, he never replied to any of her emails/texts. I would assume he's not interested.Maybe she was misinterpreting. Any thoughts?
InsaneTrombone Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Kind of in a similar situation with the girl I'm speaking to. Somewhat rare texter, does respond but typically seldom. I don't believe she's initiated a conversation with me once, but everytime we do speak she appears very interested, so I'm not sure what to make of it.
Author Tinie Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 Kind of in a similar situation with the girl I'm speaking to. Somewhat rare texter, does respond but typically seldom. I don't believe she's initiated a conversation with me once, but everytime we do speak she appears very interested, so I'm not sure what to make of it. Sounds frustrating. I would have thought, if she is interested, wouldn't she want to keep replying? And often? Or is looking interested has suddenly become uncool?
NoMoreJerks Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Is there such a thing? I saw it on a thread that got very few replies and nobody really addressed that. Can a guy be interested in a girl and not reply to her messages? I can't remember the thread's story but it was something along the lines of a shy guy who was doing some approaching and his body language seemed to be indicating he was interested, but when the girl msged him, he never replied to any of her emails/texts. I would assume he's not interested.Maybe she was misinterpreting. Any thoughts? Nope. A guy who doesn't respond to my mssges is not interested. NEXT guy! If he's so shy online, chances are, he's even worse in real life. I am not wasting my time on him. He should man up and answer, if he is interested. Otherwise it is fair to assume that he is not interested. 1
NoMoreJerks Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Sounds frustrating. I would have thought, if she is interested, wouldn't she want to keep replying? And often? Or is looking interested has suddenly become uncool? It's all those silly mind games people play -- playing hard to get, playing by the 3-day rule, playing by the 'don't text him immediately rule', playing by some stupid rule that says if you have sex with a guy after the first date, he will not want to keep seeing you. All BS, and people buy into it all , just because. I am a no-bull**** woman. If I want something, I go and get it. I do not play hard to get, I do not wait for the guy to chase me all the time -- there are no rules as to who should chase and who should always be passive. If I'm always being chased, I will feel suffocated/stalked eventually, and he will feel I am no interested.
Author Tinie Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 It's all those silly mind games people play -- playing hard to get, playing by the 3-day rule, playing by the 'don't text him immediately rule', playing by some stupid rule that says if you have sex with a guy after the first date, he will not want to keep seeing you. All BS, and people buy into it all , just because. I am a no-bull**** woman. If I want something, I go and get it. I do not play hard to get, I do not wait for the guy to chase me all the time -- there are no rules as to who should chase and who should always be passive. If I'm always being chased, I will feel suffocated/stalked eventually, and he will feel I am no interested. THANK YOU. Garsh it's nice when someone basically regurgitates my own brain matter lol. I absolutely hate mind games. If a guy is shy and giving me signs, I'm not afraid to show that I like him. If it turns out I misread, I move on. I don't really like being chased that much either. Maybe because the guy is making himself too available/easy/clingy or something. If a guy is not reciprocating, I move on. Too much work reading into signs all the time. I hate that there are 'rules'. Some rules are fine, like don't text the person 500 times a day. But that's common sense. Everything else is just a pile of bull****.
SoulJazzBlues Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 I dont think it means they are not interested. What are they like face to face? Some folk hate texting/messaging as a means for long conversations such as myself. It is definitely not a way to gauge interest for people like myself.
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