Fitgirl_xO Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 I dated someone. It ended when he said he wanted to stop dating anyone and focus on himself. (he lied). After 9 days of silence and in a drunken, blackout half hour I called him, fought with him and told him everything I truly felt. I text him as well. One thing I told him was I was avoiding our usual gym because I never wanted to see him again. I still don't. Sure I'm sad, but I know there's someone better out there for me so I'm not all wrapped up in him. He lied, betrayed me, played me... No one would ever want someone like that back. And here he is today, at my gym during my usual hour for cardio in the morning. I have strict schedule for training as I compete in competitions and he knows it. He knew I was using the other gym in the suburb town. He was in my view the entire time, moving equipment to ensure he was constantly visable to me. And when I switched to my treadmill he suddenly was working on the opposite side of the gym where again he would be able to see me and vice versa. Why would someone who told me "never contact me again" (and I said the same the night before) go out of his way to a gym he NEVER goes to? I didn't let it phase me while there, but if you've ever done this to someone or have had it done to you... is there a reason why?
forgetmenot75 Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Why would you care? If he played you, he will continue doing that. He's testing the waters, maybe for an ego boost, who knows.
Author Fitgirl_xO Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 He stabbed me, threatened to file an order against me if I contacted him again yet he puts himself in a place he knows I'll be.
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