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Should we get together despit what "they" say?

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freenterprise New Member

freenterprise

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:(

 

 

He is really really hot and has a well defined body as he works out all the time. I love to feel his abs, pecks and to caress him all over. We both just barely met and already we are all really into each other.

 

The problem is he's a whittie from Appalacia who moved here to the West Coast, I'm pacific islander and one of my friends told me, "don't mix races". After hearing that I got so sad and depressed.

 

Sociology says that we are all of the same race, the human race. But after hearing her say it was a bad thing for us to be together it was like a slap in a face. I can't help but think that maybe she is right? If the two of us hook up and become boyfriends do you think we would have issues going out in public? Where I live it is ultra liberal as it's a college town. Only, just what exactly am I getting into? All of this seems like uncharted territory. It's insane to think that us being together can never be accepted by society, not only because were gay but because we are interracial.

 

It just breaks my heart because he is so cute and already I feel genuine love for him. Genuine love, not just lust. He also feels the same way about me too. It's amazing.

 

Should I follow my heart? Or is what we are doing wrong?

 

:eek:

bluetuesday Established Member

bluetuesday

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you only just met the guy.

 

you're not in love.

 

you just fancy the ass off him.

 

but if you really want to begin to form a relationship with him and you let what other people might think stop that, you're a muppet.

 

they don't want to date him, fine.

 

all the more for you.

savethedrama4allama

savethedrama4allama

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Oh my lord- go for it. "They" will always have something bad to say about who you date. He's too lazy, he's so motivated he ignores you, he's too good looking, he's too ugly, he's too quiet & shy, he's too flirty. Skin color is the least of your worries. Screw them.

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freenterprise New Member

freenterprise

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:)

 

 

BIG "HELL YEAH"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

Last night I just found out that he has his PhD!

 

 

Phone conversation: "ME:.............................. nice being well accomplished enough, being in the career that makes you most happy *and* having your Bachelors. HIM: Oh, keep going -- I have more than just my bachelors. ME: Masters, HIM: more, ME: PhD (I say in amusement), HIM: Yes, I went to Penn State."

 

 

HOLY COW!!! It's such a relief to date some guy who has brains - has a good head on his shoulders for once. Huge contrast to the other guy I left on bad terms with who didn't even have his high school diploma at age 39.

 

So Brownie cookies to him! You gotta have not only brains but *motivation* to make such an accomplishment. PhD! Imagine that...

 

:cool:

Naive Established Member

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Regardless, people always talk s*it!!! Do whatever makes you happy. We are in the 21st Century all that race bs should be a thing of the past :rolleyes: Go for it girl ;)

savethedrama4allama

savethedrama4allama

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Congratulations! Fine and educated? Sounds like a great catch.

bluetuesday Established Member

bluetuesday

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Originally posted by naive_2001

Go for it girl ;)

 

erm, that would be 'boy' naive.

 

unless you meant girl.

 

in which case just ignore me.

savethedrama4allama

savethedrama4allama

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Originally posted by naive_2001

Regardless, people always talk s*it!!! Do whatever makes you happy. We are in the 21st Century all that race bs should be a thing of the past :rolleyes: Go for it girl ;)

 

 

boy ;)

Naive Established Member

Naive

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Originally posted by freenterprise

:(

He is really really hot and has a well defined body as he works out all the time. I love to feel his abs, pecks and to caress him all over. We both just barely met and already we are all really into each other.

 

It just breaks my heart because he is so cute and already I feel genuine love for him. Genuine love, not just lust. He also feels the same way about me too. It's amazing.

 

Should I follow my heart? Or is what we are doing wrong?

 

:eek:

 

Is the poster not a girl? :confused: I thought it was a girl because of the way it's typed above.

YellowLioness Established Member

YellowLioness

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What the hell is a whittie?

bluetuesday Established Member

bluetuesday

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Originally posted by freenterprise

If the two of us hook up and become boyfriends do you think we would have issues going out in public?

 

It's insane to think that us being together can never be accepted by society, not only because were gay but because we are interracial.

 

 

boyfriends.

 

gay.

 

boys i'm pretty sure!

kiwi29f Member

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Just like what everyone else said, Go for it. All that matters is how the two of you feel about each other. If your happy thats all that matters, everyone else isn't going to make you happy so don't worry about what they think.

Naive Established Member

Naive

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Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!

 

LOL :p

 

Either way GO FOR IT!!!

savethedrama4allama

savethedrama4allama

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Originally posted by YellowLioness

What the hell is a whittie?

 

YL- I think he means "whitey"

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