NYC-BigKat Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 I just don't know . She said looks aren't important & all that stuff when we talked today by the train station so I asked her if we can go to the movies & she said that movies don't interest her so much. So I say ok & ask her if she wants to go coney island tomorrow & she says she's busy. So I ask her if she wants to do something sunday & she say no 'cause its father's day but this is weird 'cause her father lives out of state .
daisybuchanan55 Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Forget her. Maybe it's not your looks. Could be one of a million things. Girls AND guys reject people for all sorts of reasons. There is someone out there for you. The sooner you move on from this girl the sooner you'll be available for the right girl. 2
crude Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Funny that on a board that claims men are hunters who want a challenge and live to pursue women, they tell you to quit.
Author NYC-BigKat Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 Funny that on a board that claims men are hunters who want a challenge and live to pursue women, they tell you to quit. So am I supposed to push harder?
Drseussgrrl Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Funny that on a board that claims men are hunters who want a challenge and live to pursue women, they tell you to quit. BS. Nobody here says to pursue a woman who isn't interested. I don't act uninterested when a guy is pursuing me if I like him. They need encouragement too. 3
Quiet Storm Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 She's making excuses. Many people lie to avoid conflict. Don't see this as "what did I do wrong?". See it as, "she's just not the one for me". Maybe she is not attracted to you. Maybe she is not over an ex. Maybe she has other options. Maybe she is crazy. Maybe she just doesn't feel any sparks. It doesn't matter why. What matters is that you need to conclude that she is not the one for you. Think "Next", instead of analyzing it. 1
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 She said looks aren't important She's lying. Looks are just as important to women as they are to men.
crude Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 So am I supposed to push harder? Na, she's kicked you in the head repeatedly, but ask her why she's not interested. You have nothing to lose at this point, and it'll be good for your mental health to know WHY she isn't interested, rather than mulling it over and over again in your head.
SoulJazzBlues Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 BS. Nobody here says to pursue a woman who isn't interested. I don't act uninterested when a guy is pursuing me if I like him. They need encouragement too. +1. She knocked back every suggestion of yours, she is not wanting to be chased, she wants you to leave her alone.
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