heartless2012 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 I was dating this girl, we were happy together. we were going to have children and start a family together. The thing is her family hates me and that put stress on the relationship, We got into a huge fight a couple of days ago and she left me. I have been trying to work it out but I feel like Im getting no where. I want her back so bad but I feel like im getting nowhere. I might have to face the reality thats it's really over. I feel so alone, even when im around ppl. I want a family so bad idk what to do. she was going to be the mother of my child, which she still might be because we have been trying.
SimonSerenade Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 That's tough man, I know how you feel, right now you have to stop trying and give her some space to breath, I know that's hard but the heat from the argument right now is still piping hot no doubt. Let it cool off and see where you stand with her, if it is over for good, don't scream and shout, don't call her names or feel victimised, accept it and try to give it a good ending you'll cherish for a life time someday, I know you have high hopes and dreams for this woman but trust me, it'll mean nothing if her heart isn't in it, after she's cooled down, have a chat with her about how she feels, really be honest and take the time to understand how she feels, also, make an effort to make amends with her family, I know it's hard when it comes to families but she'll think wonders of you for making an effort like that.
Author heartless2012 Posted June 19, 2013 Author Posted June 19, 2013 I have not done too good with the no contact thing. I have not gone negative with it tho. we seem to be getting somewhere but she got pissed again. I ask her if it's over and should I give up hope, she either give me no answer, says im not answering your questions or says idk. I talk to her yesterday, she drop off stuff. she ask me to leave her alone for awhile and I ask if we can talk after the break and she said idk yet. she seems real pissed so Im going with nc for awhile but I wish she would let me know if I should move on
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