puffdaddy Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 So needless to say, when my ex gf went NC on me after I broke up with her, I have been hurting bad. Today will be two weeks. Even though I am the dumper, I've been emotional as well. I have seen pics of her having fun, going out to bars, getting comments from other men etc. Today is Friday. It was usually our movie night. We would go to the movies and then play hard on Saturday nights and then run together on Sundays. Why is the weekend harder to get through than say the week? Does anyone have any advice how to deal with Friday and Saturday nights now? I'm not a bar person or a club person, so those suggestions are out of the question.
Appleness Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 Weekends are harder because you have more time on your hands to think about what your missing. If you genuinely didn't want to be with her then you can't judge her based on what she's doing now, you just have to move on and work on yourself. Find a good gym and work off some on those emotions. Talk to friends. Go to the movies or join a meetup.
TaraMaiden Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 So needless to say, when my ex gf went NC on me after I broke up with her, I have been hurting bad. Today will be two weeks. Even though I am the dumper, I've been emotional as well. I have seen pics of her having fun, going out to bars, getting comments from other men etc. How have you seen these? You haven't blocked her, have you? You're checking her FB account, am I right? That's on you buddy..... Today is Friday. It was usually our movie night. We would go to the movies and then play hard on Saturday nights and then run together on Sundays. Why is the weekend harder to get through than say the week? Plenty of free time, no distractions, nothing else to occupy your mind - so you fill it with crap about her. You 'snowball'. Does anyone have any advice how to deal with Friday and Saturday nights now? I'm not a bar person or a club person, so those suggestions are out of the question. That's not necessarily your problem. your problem is that you wallow, get despondent, morose and unhappy, and think that this is all you have. If you quit, shift your focus and examine other opportunities and possibilities, without putting obstacles in front of yourself, you'll find there's a whole lot more you could be doing.
PR08 Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 This is going to sound tough, but sadly there's no other way to put it: you were the one who decided to end it, so it's no concern of yours what she's up to now. Is it that you're actually sad because she seems to be coping better than you thought she would?
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