totallylost5040 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Hey everyone.... Just wanted some advice. So this girl ended it with me a while ago, about a month ago. I went NC for a while and 2 weeks into it she emailed me and asked how i was doing, what i've been up to. Since then there's been small talk, nothing crazy. She actually wanted to see if I had pics from a vacation we went on. I didn't respond initially to it and told her that I would give them to you when I had a chance. But now she wants to meet in PERSON so we can exchange them. I dragged that on for about 2 weeks and I don't want to drag this on any longer, I wanna just get rid of them so I don't have to talk to her again. I know there is NOTHING that I can do to get her back, although parts of me still want to. I'm going to try to follow my own advice and come up with a game plan so that I can get my swag on and just brush it off like I don't give a damn. Plan is to make it about a half hour and that's IT. I'm contemplating on whether or not we should remain in contact, i'm leaning towards NEVER talk to her again, its going to be hard but I don't want to keep living like this (we shared a lot of good memories and had GREAT times), right now she thinks we will stay in contact and eventually we'll end up being just as close as we were before we started dating. I'm a different person now, i've got a lot of things going for me and on my mind, I'm moving.... got a promotion... getting another tattoo... getting my motorcycle license, going skydiving... planning a trip to Costa Rica and the Philippines. I'll have to see if I want to share that with her (she ended it because she felt we were just friends) and I did get complacent, im not going to lie. I was stale. Any advice for me?
desertsessions Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 I don't know if I'm the best person to give advice, but I would say don't even hang out with her in person if you still have feelings for her. It just makes **** complicated... I mean, you may sound like a jerk, but you gotta do what you think is right for yourself. I was in the same boat as you three years ago, and I honestly think If i did hang out with my ex at the time, it would have severely messed me up even more haha.
Author totallylost5040 Posted June 14, 2013 Author Posted June 14, 2013 I don't know if I'm the best person to give advice, but I would say don't even hang out with her in person if you still have feelings for her. It just makes **** complicated... I mean, you may sound like a jerk, but you gotta do what you think is right for yourself. I was in the same boat as you three years ago, and I honestly think If i did hang out with my ex at the time, it would have severely messed me up even more haha. Yah I know, the problem is that we were friends first and we have a bunch of mutual friends at the same time. I dunno, its really dragging me down at times, but there are also times where I'm just like... screw it, I can do anything without her as well. it's waves of emotion that come in an out. The problem is i've been taking the high road ALL the time so far and its gotten me nowhere really lol but negative energy.
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