meeji Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 I wrote a handfull of threads about my LDR that fell apart back in december. After that ended, I did some self-discovery, went on a few dates and decided It was troublesome and gave up. I have been focusing on myself and doing things to make improvements. Went to Japan and had a blast! (I personally don't believe that league's exist but) I can say to those of you who believe that they do, I have sucessfully stepped up my game. I worked on my resume and started applying for jobs that are ugrade in both status and pay from my current position. I was able to hold my employer by the throat to negotiate, as I had already had another job offer in the bag. Next Monday is my first day at the new job. I went from working as an hourly employee with no benefits to a salaried postion that pays for all my benifits and pays almost 3x more than my current annual salary. I am also moving in 2 weeks. I'm leaving my comfortable little apartment to updagrade to a house. I didn't think that I would be able to do any of this, especially not so soon but its happening! Thank you ex bf. I'm glad he dumped me. I dug deep into my psyche to find a self worth that I didn't I had. Foward from here. Don't give up on yourself guys.... All it takes is a little convincing yourself and some hard work. You can live without your ex and you don't need that person to validate you. All the time you spend wondering about what he/she is doing or who they are with think about how you can help yourself. 1
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