a0009 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 (edited) Last night we had an argument when i told her that am not cool with one of my male friends and i told her my reasons and she said i don't tell her all my problems and what i tell her is always incomplete. I tell her the important issues every time they occurred (my reason is i cant tell her everything that goes on between me and my friends). She started saying that she doesn't care about me and she is does not love me or know me.... I did not say anything and later in the night she said she wants to date other guys and that I don't own her and she is not my property..She also wants a breakup...this morning she was still mad ... One other point is that I have noticed that she is getting mad over small issues or anything that i do.... Tomorrow is her birthday and I have got her present but I don't know what to do or how it will go Edited June 14, 2013 by a0009
Emilia Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 later in the night she said she wants to date other guys and that I don't own her and she is not my property.. this would be my cue to say bye bye 7
Ale khun Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 When someone says that they want to date other people the RL it's over . Don't give her anything she dont deserve it 3
Sneaky Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 This post confused me, you're still together? I'm sorry but I agree with Emilia. Saying something like wanting to date other people is pretty much means it's over.
veggirl Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Return the gift. When someone DUMPS YOU and doesn't love you, you don't reward them with a gift. 3
Author a0009 Posted June 14, 2013 Author Posted June 14, 2013 Technically we are still together because she said she wants to date other people and other stuff but I did not say anything about it and in my understanding she said she wants a breakup and did not go any further.. all I said was why whats happening between me and my friend is affecting our relationship and make her act that way.
Emilia Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Technically we are still together because she said she wants to date other people and other stuff but I did not say anything about it and in my understanding she said she wants a breakup and did not go any further.. all I said was why whats happening between me and my friend is affecting our relationship and make her act that way. there is probably something else too
Cutiepie1976 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 She started saying that she doesn't care about me and she is does not love me or know me.... I did not say anything and later in the night she said she wants to date other guys and that I don't own her and she is not my property..She also wants a breakup...this morning she was still mad ... One other point is that I have noticed that she is getting mad over small issues or anything that i do.... Tomorrow is her birthday and I have got her present but I don't know what to do or how it will go Every little thing you do irritates her. She told you she doesn't love you. She told you she wants to date others. She told you she wants to break up with you and you don't own her. How much clearer could she possibly be? Stick a fork in it. Your relationship is done. Over. Kaput. Finito. Technically we are still together because she said she wants to date other people and other stuff but I did not say anything about it and in my understanding she said she wants a breakup and did not go any further.. all I said was why whats happening between me and my friend is affecting our relationship and make her act that way. She doesn't need your agreement on this. It only takes one person to end things. She's out. Done. Over it. Next. Sorry this happened. Breakups suck, but you'll recover. It gets better. Please don't give her gifts. Please don't grovel and beg her to reconsider. Just accept it with dignity and move on with your life. You'll feel better with time. You'll have other relationships. 3
Mack05 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 I did not say anything and later in the night she said she wants to date other guys and that I don't own her and she is not my property.. To which you should have replied "Have fun, just makes sure they wear protection. I hear herpes is a total b!tch". You then never see her again. It really is that simple. You just need to grow a set of balls man. Give the present to charity, to someone who will appreciate it. My new motto in new life. If you don't disrespect me, I won't disrespect you. As soon as you disrespect me, I will fire right back. Not in an abusive way, just in a way that he/she knows that I won't be spoken to/treated like that. It won't be tolerated. The fact she still want this girl, says far more about you then it does about her..Grow a pair. How someone views you, should not effect you. it's all about self belief..Never speak to her again..
Chi townD Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 What's the deal with this "friend". Why are you mad at him?
GorillaTheater Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Technically we are still together Why? Not for the half-assed reasons you gave in this post, but really? Learn when a relationship needs to end, and be willing to step up to the plate to end it yourself instead of relying on your gf to do the hard work. 1
BrokenHeartedSavior Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Wanna get her a nice gift? WALK AWAY FROM HER and give her all the freedom in the world! Then take the money you WOULD have spent, and buy YOURSELF something!
therhythm Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Technically we are still together because she said she wants to date other people and other stuff but I did not say anything about it and in my understanding she said she wants a breakup and did not go any further.. all I said was why whats happening between me and my friend is affecting our relationship and make her act that way. No you are not... she was pretty clear... she wants to date other guys and she wants out... don't be a doormat and just move on, she has done that already!
tbf Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Return the gift and get your money back. This is a non-negotiable action. Do it. Want an evil way to handle this? Maintain contact to some extent, then when she wants to see you, tell her you have a date and can't. Make sure this is the truth by dating others.
Jono85 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 ... One other point is that I have noticed that she is getting mad over small issues or anything that i do.... Tomorrow is her birthday and I have got her present but I don't know what to do or how it will go it's not your fault, this is how girls (possibly people, i wouldn't know) get when they want out of a relationship. like everyone is saying, it's over, don't give her no gift, and leave with your head held high. **** her.
tbf Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 it's not your fault, this is how girls (possibly people, i wouldn't know) get when they want out of a relationship. like everyone is saying, it's over, don't give her no gift, and leave with your head held high. **** her.My guess based on how the evening progressed, is that she's using break up as a tool to get him to back off his possessiveness. When it's used as a tool like this, it will be used again. So the best way to handle this is to accept the break up and move on.
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