wideawake0310 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 No contact with ex but him having my keys and his stuff at my place was torturing me. Finally I gave in and texted him for my keys back. It brought back all those mixed emotions and I said hurtful things and same thing for him. I told one of my friends and he told me that my ex won by me contacting him first? But I wanted to move on and can't do this to myself anymore. Was he right ?
BrokenHeartedSavior Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Yep. You should have left his stuff out for pickup, or had a friend drop it. Change locks! Sorry.
aloneinaz Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Yup.. agree with above. You used the keys and his stuff as a means to contact him. It's normal and I get it but in retrospect, dumping his stuff at his door and simply changing the locks would of kept you on your healing track. My ex broke it off w/me. I had her items returned and mine picked up two days later. NC since...
Mallow Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 The aim is not to "win" against your ex. There is no reason to make a breakup into a game. You made a slip up by contacting your ex, but it isn't the end of the world. Get back on track, return to NC and continue your healing process. You will get through it. 1
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