irc333 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 ....I know some of us say "give it a shot anyway" but would this...mentioned in a dating profile say "Screw it, I'll email her....see what happens" or no? Also before you message me, look in the mirror, say to self . "Self have I ever had a girlfriend , that wasn't blind,that was as good looking,as this girl?" If the answer is no, then don't message
todreaminblue Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 I dont know it seems pretty arrogant.....its actually a pretty masculine comment.......sounds more like something a man would say..in my opinion..was this really from a females profile.........deb 1
Author irc333 Posted June 14, 2013 Author Posted June 14, 2013 I dont know it seems pretty arrogant.....its actually a pretty masculine comment.......sounds more like something a man would say..in my opinion..was this really from a females profile.........deb Oh yes, definitely from a woman's profile
todreaminblue Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Oh yes, definitely from a woman's profile How did it make you feel as soon as you read that comment irc?......deb 1
Xinreeki Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 (edited) ....I know some of us say "give it a shot anyway" but would this...mentioned in a dating profile say "Screw it, I'll email her....see what happens" or no? Also before you message me, look in the mirror, say to self . "Self have I ever had a girlfriend , that wasn't blind,that was as good looking,as this girl?" If the answer is no, then don't message I may be missing something obvious here, but that statement doesn't seem to make any sense to me.. Maybe its just poorly worded? As surely she would want you to view her as BETTER looking than other girls you have dated in the past? Especially if she was arrogant, because she would consider herself to be better looking than most other girls by default? Wouldn't she? Edited June 14, 2013 by Xinreeki
todreaminblue Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 I may be missing something obvious here, but that statement doesn't seem to make any sense to me.. Maybe its just poorly worded? As surely she would want to be MORE good looking than other girls you have dated in the past? i just think it a really arrogant statement to make.....telling guys to look in the mirror and be honest with themselves if they have dated anyone as good looking as her...and if they havent...they arent good enough so dont reply.....so she isextremely looks conscious.....including the previous women the potential has dated...yuck...deb...... 1
Author irc333 Posted June 14, 2013 Author Posted June 14, 2013 I may be missing something obvious here, but that statement doesn't seem to make any sense to me.. Maybe its just poorly worded? As surely she would want you to view her as BETTER looking than other girls you have dated in the past? Especially if she was arrogant, because she would consider herself to be better looking than most other girls by default? Wouldn't she? Yeah, she is one of those "I'm hot and I know it types", and if you were to see her in public, you'd probably agree. She works out, runs marathons, simply enough good genes, and she probably has tons of guys approaching her. She's a nurse, late 30's, simply born with a family tree of good looks apparently, (dont want to post he rpicture here) but she has really gone out of her way to have professionally done model shots in skin tight nightclub, body hugging dresses. Putting her hair in the air with her hands, sticking her hip out....her profile likes like something from MAXIM magazine (picture-wise) LOL Basically, she's arrogant, and probably can get away with it because she CAN put her money wehre her mouth is
Xinreeki Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 I wouldn't email her because she's in her late 30s. But some people can appear so sexy and youthful, that you would never guess their age by just looking at them... In this case though, its all down to if you want to take a shot and message her OP, if she is attractive to you and you think you might be compatible. I don't know either of you really, so I couldn't say. Only you could really judge if you think she might be a match for you?
starrynightz45 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 ....I know some of us say "give it a shot anyway" but would this...mentioned in a dating profile say "Screw it, I'll email her....see what happens" or no? Also before you message me, look in the mirror, say to self . "Self have I ever had a girlfriend , that wasn't blind,that was as good looking,as this girl?" If the answer is no, then don't message Seems kind of arrogant right off tha bat to me. People generally try to give off the BEST impression initially. If that's her best...well... 2
Janesays Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 I'd write back: "To answer your question, no, I have never had a girlfriend as good looking as you. However, I have also never been as filthy rich as I am now. You interested?" 9
sillyanswer Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Also before you message me, look in the mirror, say to self . "Self have I ever had a girlfriend , that wasn't blind,that was as good looking,as this girl?" If the answer is no, then don't message I have dated someone as good looking as that girl, and I still wouldn't write to her. 1
sillyanswer Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 In my book hot and demure beats hot and in your face every time. 1
runningfar Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Also before you message me, look in the mirror, say to self . "Self have I ever had a girlfriend , that wasn't blind,that was as good looking,as this girl?" If the answer is no, then don't message That's highly disturbing. Eeew 1
tricolors Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 FYI: It's really easy to find that chick's profile just by Googling that phrase. After having looked at her, she's pretty, yeah, but way annoying and into herself. Ignore her. Jesus, even her profile name is obnoxious and self-serving.
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 She sounds like a bitch to me, sorry I would never message her. I don't message girls lol but if a guy said that I wouldn't message him either.
mammasita Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 I think she's gorgeous, but yeah, that statement is a major turnoff. If I were a man, I wouldn't message her. I get the feeling that all she would talk about is herself. UGH - annoying.
runningfar Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 ....I know some of us say "give it a shot anyway" but would this...mentioned in a dating profile say "Screw it, I'll email her....see what happens" or no? Also before you message me, look in the mirror, say to self . "Self have I ever had a girlfriend , that wasn't blind,that was as good looking,as this girl?" If the answer is no, then don't message I looked it up and I know girls better looking than her, less attention seeking (those pictures! Who takes and posts pictures in those stances? It looks like a porn star), and far kinder and more modest. Not that any looks excuse that personality. She's asking to get used. ETA _ part of me wonders if it is fake to see what responses that horrible personality still gets with pictures of big breasts and tight dresses... you know, test the desparation of guys.
Mallow Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 That is just tacky. It doesn't matter how physically attractive you are, the inside eventually shines out the outside appearance.
CryForNoOne Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Not sure if people realize that verbatim quotes from a dating profile are easily Googled... Anyway, she's really not all that. Girls like her are a dime a dozen in CA and FL. I'd hardly describe her as "born from a family tree with good looks". She wears a ton of makeup, breasts are proabably fake, and she works out a ton to stay in shape. To her credit, she has worked hard to create / maintain her appearance. Personally too trashy lookin for my tastes - but that's me. Lastly, those bikini shots are from a LONG time ago. Look at her face and body between various photos and it's obvious. Ironic that she complains about guys who use old photos in their profiles...
InJest Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 I'd message her. She's shown her cards already. If I got a reply I'd know instantly that I'm already in. I'd bang her a few times, then drop her cold.
Mme. Chaucer Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Maybe she should post a photo of herself at work as an ICU RN. 1
tbf Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Basically, she's arrogant, and probably can get away with it because she CAN put her money wehre her mouth isSince she can back up her statement, this means she's not arrogant. Arrogance is an exaggerated opinion of oneself.
Star Gazer Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 I'd write back: "To answer your question, no, I have never had a girlfriend as good looking as you. However, I have also never been as filthy rich as I am now. You interested?" This literally made me chuckle. Normally, I wouldn't message such a person, but in this instance, i might, just to poke fun at her.
grkBoy Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 ....I know some of us say "give it a shot anyway" but would this...mentioned in a dating profile say "Screw it, I'll email her....see what happens" or no? Also before you message me, look in the mirror, say to self . "Self have I ever had a girlfriend , that wasn't blind,that was as good looking,as this girl?" If the answer is no, then don't message I wouldn't waste my time. Forget any notions of "not good enough for her". She's not good enough for any self-respecting male out there. Probably just another "career online dater" who will be on the site for years and yet never find a boyfriend. Probably also will be continually updating her profile to say "NO LIARS!" and "NO LOSERS!" while never really addressing how little she has to offer in the dating realm. Move on.
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