wildtrac77 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Hi, I could do some advice with this current dating situation, Meet a girl online, been on four really great dates with contact by one/two txts/day and the odd phone call in/out between, we have a lot in common and get on really well, first three dates she asked me out for the next date, date last sun went for lunch at her place and met her mother towards the end of the eve ( no idea that was on the cards untill she came home ) they live in the same house, was a really nice chilled out day ( her words ) Thru the lunch date as we were chatting she made a few suggestions of places/ things we could do in the future but when I left her place I asked her when she was next free and she said she was very busy with work etc the next week as she is going away on hols this mon but when I got home she txt me saying im great company and it would be good to meet up for dinner this week if she can fit me in but since then have only had the odd txt from her.. She has said she hates needy/clingy guys ( which im not ) I txt her a couple of days ago but no reply ( which is unsual ) just asking about general stuff etc, my problem now is what is the score/ how do I deal with it by not coming across as clingy but at the same time know where I stand... should I leave it until she comes back from hols ( away for a week ) and then call her up or just drop her a casual txt at the weekend then leave it upto her either way?? Have been on four dates in three weeks which is fine with me, she comes across as the type of person who is happy to take things slow to start with when seeing a new guy and only meet up once a week etc.. I don't want to look elsewhere if she is still intrested but playing it cool as we have a lot of similar intrests/ get on really well but not sitting around waiting if she isn't. Thanks for any advice ps : she hasn't been on the site ( never have I but you can check without logging in ) since we started hanging out.
todreaminblue Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 I think once a week is a good start...she has commitments so its realistic.......just relax....you are checking to see whether she is online or not..dont know how often you do it..but i would control that and not make a habit of it.............you have stated she hasn't been on line since you started hanging out with her....that is a good sign....best of luck...deb
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