Genesis0166 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 5 months after we got married my wife filed for a divorce. She had a manic episode and the argument got ugly so she filed. She then ignore me for a month then asked to worked things out. That lasted 2wks, then then explicitly told me he wanna nothing to do with me and if I contacted her, she would seek a restraining order. Well it's been 2 months later and last Monday she text me a very mundane question , Tuesday same thing, then Wednesday she told me her mom was in the hospital . Since her mom and I have always been cool with each other , I went to visit . My wife showed up, I played it very cool. I was there 2 hours. When we both left , my wife asked why I went to visit ( she expressed how happy her mom was to see me and appreciated me going ) then she ask why am I helping her with her brakes. I just told her she contacted me and she knows I would not say no cause I love her, I just left right forwards . Today he text another mundane question. I just keep to subject since she treated me so bad during our break up. Any insight?
aliceinthebox Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 I think you should keep doing what you are doing. You are being very mature about the situation and it seems like you are in control of the situation. I think where you are standing is a good place to be in because you can see what develops and decide for yourself whether to continue a relationship. It's almost like the dumpee and dumper reverse roles.
Author Genesis0166 Posted June 14, 2013 Author Posted June 14, 2013 So what you are saying , is not to say to much? Thanks
aliceinthebox Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 So what you are saying , is not to say to much? Thanks Yup yup. Do only what is necessary or do only things you probably would have done regardless if she's around like visit her mother. I'm glad you visited her mother and didn't make her actions prevent you from visiting someone that has a soft spot for you.
Author Genesis0166 Posted June 14, 2013 Author Posted June 14, 2013 Thanks for advice. I actually picked up her car today too to get it fixed. I know she doesn't need me to do it but since she ask about where to take it, I offered. She left money in globe box but ill pay for it myself.
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