Lonleyboy13 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 So we have been broken up for about 4 months now and just last week she sent me a text saying she missed me everyday and her life was ****ed now don't worry I didn't see this as a sign that she wants me but it still confuses me I didn't reply but it plays on my mind .. I care about her a lot and I know she's going through a ****ty time but **** that's her fault for pyshing me her only support away. I'm just over these breadcrumb messages that I am getting every 2 weeks .. Because it puts me in a even more negative frame of mind because she did **** everything !! In terms of our relationship. She's so dumb and it saddens me because I know she will wake up one day regretting everything. It's just hard to picture your life with a certain person and then have to erase that image. I would love to reconcile but she's an idiot her turned her back on us
McGriff Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 So we have been broken up for about 4 months now and just last week she sent me a text saying she missed me everyday and her life was ****ed now don't worry I didn't see this as a sign that she wants me but it still confuses me I didn't reply but it plays on my mind .. I care about her a lot and I know she's going through a ****ty time but **** that's her fault for pyshing me her only support away. I'm just over these breadcrumb messages that I am getting every 2 weeks .. Because it puts me in a even more negative frame of mind because she did **** everything !! In terms of our relationship. She's so dumb and it saddens me because I know she will wake up one day regretting everything. It's just hard to picture your life with a certain person and then have to erase that image. I would love to reconcile but she's an idiot her turned her back on us Do you see the irony in this statement? Haha. Anyway, yes they are breadcrumbs. Allow her to wallow in her own mess she made. She earned it! 1
melodicintention Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 There's a saying "The medium is the message." This means that the way you communicate says a lot about what you are trying to communicate. IMO using texting to communicate anything other than directions or that I'm going to be 5 minutes late to dinner, is saying I'm making a half-assed effort to contact you. I am not making a true effort to connect with you, but I am attempting to contact you. I can't speak for her intentions because I don't know her, but me personally I would have deleted the message and made no further actions. She might have been drunk. Or horny. Save the message, in a couple of weeks it might make for a good laugh once you've moved on from this.
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