Mark1 Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 I'm talking to a beautiful 44 year old woman on OKCupid. We've spoken on the phone several times. I am 24. We are going out to dinner tonight, and she gave me her address to pick her up. She said, however, she just wants to be friends, nothing more. Is this just her way of not appearing promiscuous? I can't imagine why a 44 year old would go out to dinner with a 24 year old other than for sex. She did suggest I give her a back rub after dinner. Thoughts? How should I play this?
Author Mark1 Posted June 13, 2013 Author Posted June 13, 2013 You don't have to play anything, you're going to have sex tonight so bring a condom. hmm really?
Author Mark1 Posted June 13, 2013 Author Posted June 13, 2013 You are a complete dck, maybe she just is curious??? He said she is beautiful not desperate. i have no idea, maybe she is desperate
BradJacobs Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Trim up the coin purse just in case (along with bringing the protection as prescribed above) ...
pteromom Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 I rarely ever agree with Jonas, but he's right. The only thing a 44 year old woman would want with a 24 year old guy is sex. She wants a back rub. So that already says her definition of "friends" is different than standard. So how should you play it? Be confident. Be "manly" (you are in that gray area where you could come across as a kid if you do the shy or insecure thing.) Flirt. Give her the backrub. If she seems to be enjoying it, keep on rubbing.... And report back!!!! <---this is the most important step. 2
pteromom Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 i have no idea, maybe she is desperate Maybe she's just horny. That doesn't have to = desperate. 1
It's Just Me Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Can't wait to hear the report! Hope her pics were recent.
Feelin Frisky Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 If you've never met her IRL before, bear in mind that it could get odd in a hurry. I actually met someone on an elevator who looked great at night. Then I went to have lunch with her and her age jumped out at me. Just for a split second my eyes were drawn to that and she got openly contentious with me. I thought what I did had to be barely if at all perceptible. But she went weird on me asking me "what are you looking at?" Excuse me? It was very off-putting and the lunch was a painful waste of my credit card. Be sure not to even look for a millisecond like you're inspecting her (much less if there is something there drawing your eye that you didn't expect like some age spots or wrinkles or missing hair or w/e). Hopefully she won't be as neurotic as this woman was with me. I was about 32 I guess. Her? Perhaps as much as 47. She didn't give me the chance to adjust. But in that elevator the night before, she was rocking attractive.
pcplod Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Hmm. So she gives you her address to meet up, rather than an agreed public venue? I guess it is not unheard of, but it's got to be more unusual than usual, especially for a first date. Never mind. I'm sure you have it sussed.
KatZee Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Yeah, she just wants some booty. There's absolutely nothing a 24 year old could offer a 44 year old woman besides some free fun.
happykat Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 You don't have to play anything, you're going to have sex tonight so bring a condom. haha this is totally true.. Just no matter what you do be confident and have a good time.. we expect a full report tomorrow.
shexy Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Well, I'm 42 and would no way in hell actually consider going out with a 24 year old for anything but sex.....so I have to guess that yes, she wants sex.
spiderowl Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 The vast majority of women are done playing games by 44, he's a young, virile man and she's an older woman. Unless he screws up in some tremendous way he's getting it on tonight. You are so wrong. He's probably tried to persuade her to meet in person, indulged in a bit of banter, and she thought she might as well meet if he sounds a nice guy. If she's said she wants to be friends, that means she's already warning him not to expect anything. If he wants her to be more than friends, he should make it clear that's what he wants and that he's looking for a lover not a friend. She can then decide whether she wants to meet on those terms or not.
Negative Nancy Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 I can't imagine why a 44 year old would go out to dinner with a 24 year old other than for sex. I think you watched too much cougar and milf porn. :rolleyes:
Phantom888 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 I dated a 46 year old woman who used to chat with 24 year old guys online. It was a sick behavior and I basically lost interest in her when I found out.
Author Mark1 Posted June 14, 2013 Author Posted June 14, 2013 i have no idea how i pulled it off. she is waaaaay out of my league. im not saying that just to be modest. i'm baffled. hottest woman ive ever kissed, let alone hook up with. 1
Author Mark1 Posted June 14, 2013 Author Posted June 14, 2013 I dated a 46 year old woman who used to chat with 24 year old guys online. It was a sick behavior and I basically lost interest in her when I found out. god forbid a woman in her 40s with a great body and who takes care of herself wants the same in her man, right? not many 40 year olds these days who AREN'T balding and grossly overweight. 2
mammasita Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Something similar has just happened to me. This 22 years young, virile, very good looking.....um, boy is trying to be my "friend". I know that there is less then zero potential for anything serious with him, but I am so tempted to saddle up LOL..... That said, IMO a 44 year old woman is only interested in a 24 year old man for SEX. Does this woman have kids? grandkids?
Author Mark1 Posted June 14, 2013 Author Posted June 14, 2013 Something similar has just happened to me. This 22 years young, virile, very good looking.....um, boy is trying to be my "friend". I know that there is less then zero potential for anything serious with him, but I am so tempted to saddle up LOL..... That said, IMO a 44 year old woman is only interested in a 24 year old man for SEX. Does this woman have kids? grandkids? she has a 14 and a 9 year old
pteromom Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 i have no idea how i pulled it off. she is waaaaay out of my league. im not saying that just to be modest. i'm baffled. hottest woman ive ever kissed, let alone hook up with. See? She knew what she wanted! Hope you were safe, and I hope you made sure she had a great time. LOL
Feelin Frisky Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 i have no idea how i pulled it off. she is waaaaay out of my league. im not saying that just to be modest. i'm baffled. hottest woman ive ever kissed, let alone hook up with. atta boy... This should do your ego for the rest of your life. 1
Author Mark1 Posted June 14, 2013 Author Posted June 14, 2013 atta boy... This should do your ego for the rest of your life. why the eyeroll?
Feelin Frisky Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 why the eyeroll? It was a good eye roll. Not the sarcastic one. As in woo-hoo, got it goin' on.
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