undergroundlife13 Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 (edited) Its almost been 3 months (on the 29th) after BU and 2 months NC (at his end) for me, and I miss him everyday....We were seeing eachother almost 7 months and official for 4. Is it ridiculous that im still hung up on him? I guess my question is how long were you together and how long aftr BU/ NC are you still hung up? For those at ease with the situation how long did it take? Thank you Edited June 13, 2013 by undergroundlife13
J_L_C Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Together for a year. Broke up 10 months ago. 2 months NC but with sporadic contact in between.
Dundas Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Me and my ex were together for 2.5 years and she broke up with me 2 months ago and started dating her younger brother's friend just 2 days later... she'd met him a month prior and we'd both been hanging out with him, I just didn't know what was going on. For a whole month I was heartbroken and really hung up on her... I kept calling her and texting her pleading with her at first... but it stopped, gradually. It's now been one month since I've given up and stopped trying, although I am still way too hung up on her. I've been in low contact for the last month (I work with her and her father as a home health aide). I work in the house alone, but she relieves my shift once a week so I bump into her for a couple minutes. Even for that, I keep my calm and try my best to keep conversations work-related only, and I've stopped texting her for anything other than work-related issues and scheduling. The longer I go without trying, the more interested she seems every week I see her, but I no longer give her any details on what has been going on in my life. I'm sure it has to kill her not knowing, but that's just how it has to be. It does get easier, yes I'm still hung up on her... But I'm getting over her SO much quicker than I thought! I haven't started dating or anything, but I've met some a couple girls who might be a possibility, but who knows, I'm keeping my options open. The ex is the only girl I've been with, but I'm slowly losing my feelings for her as anything other than a stranger/acquaintance, which is strange because we were inseparable. But I have no option but to move on, even if I do still have feelings for her. I refuse to chase after her anymore.
CorridorE Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Together just under 3 years BU was four months ago NC for three...
theonlyjuan Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Together 6 months Broke up 4 days ago Spoke to her yesterday. Going to try to remain friends. My mind feels bipolar right now. Mixed emotions, up and down all day. Can't wait for these feelings to end
The Situation Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Together a year and a half (on and off) Broke up end of April, no contact until unfortunately bumping into each other five days ago. Feel crap again after making progress. Miss her.
Pisces13 Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Together 2 years, she broke up with me 3 months ago. We've been in fairly regular contact since, but I'm not expecting to hear much from her now, she has been acting a bit short when I've texted her this week. My mood is a lot better than it was a couple of months ago, but I still miss her dearly.
drpepper1886 Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Together 3 years, friends for 10+ prior. Broken up for 9 months, NC (minus 1 email and a happy bday text from her) 9 months as well. She moved out of state, don't expect to ever see/hear from her again. Hope she "finds herself" hahaha.
mahon451 Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Together for a little over a year, broken up with LC for 4 months. I'm finally starting to get to a point where I feel "normal", and I'm starting to date/see other people without my issues with her getting in the way. I still love her, and I always will (in the same way that I still love anyone else I fell in love with), but it's over- and it was from the moment we broke up.
HopelessRomantick Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Together just shy of 3 years. Was long distance. Been 10 months since she broke it off. Struggled severely for the 1st 7 months. Sporadic messasging here and there. Then NC for 2.5 months. Felt better. Then due to a huge debt we incurred, I had no choice but to contact her 2 weeks asking for assistance to pay it off. Miserable directly after and for about 5 days. Better now. Will always miss her. Will always want one more day.
pa_H0k Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 together for 11 months. official for 5 months. ~4 months since break up. 2 months since NC. and im still trippin'. sigh.
BustedUpInside Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Together for 6 years, lived together for 3.5. Broke up almost 6 months ago, NC for about a month, LC for about 3 months before that. Still a little hung up, but it's way better than it used to be.
Hockeyguy19 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Together for 3 years, she left me first week of April, been lc/nc since the bu but we aren't talking anymore, probably for good this, which is honestly what I need as much as I hate to admit it. I have good days and extremely horrible ones, but they are all self inflicted. Still hung up on her alot, and I need to get past it. Still picking up all the peices of my life.
SweetiePie12 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 I've been hung up on him since before we met. He was a major crush of mine. But since we've started getting to know one another, he hasn't left my mind in the entire 15 months we've been apart. Hope the absence ends ASAP, and that I'm having a good hair day & looking my best
grace777 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Together 3.5 years. Friends for 3+ prior to that. Still trying to maintain/re-develop a friendship, so I guess I'm still hung up on her a bit. I think I always will be. She made a huge imprint on my life. 1
frostythesnowman Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Close friends for 2 years, together for a year, on and off for a couple months, and I've been hung up on her for two years after that now. Long time, I know, but its a complicated story (feel free to read my threads). Working on erasing her completely from my life now though.
Chris715 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Broke up about 7 months ago. 3 weeks of NC now. Nothing's really gotten better, sorry to say. Still feel like ****, constantly stressed, constantly thinking about her.
BrokenHeartedSavior Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 8 years together, lived together most of that time. One year broken up. Still hung up on at least the memory of her. Reality is she's a stranger to me now.
suladas Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 2 months together, broken up about 11 months, 3 or 4 months NC (NC as much as possible for being next door neighbours), I lost count. Haven't been hung up for a long time. I see her daily usually and haven't cared for a while. It's a dahm nice feeling!
Debbie2508 Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Lived together for 2 years,been broken up 5 months and am still devastated. Today should have been our Wedding Day, I'm lying on my bed writing this,tryingti stop myself thinking of what might have been....
Recommended Posts