cancer1234 Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 (edited) My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 10 months. I am a Cancer and she is a Scorpio. In the beginning things were amazing! We seemed meant to be together. Things progressed very fast. We were saying I love you within the first 2 months. Everything was perfect. About 2 months ago, she started to get distant and push away. Me being a cancer, did the usual, and started to smother her. This went on for a couple weeks until I finally talked to her about it. The talk went well and things were better for about a week. Then she started to pull away again. After another week or so of this, I confronted her again and asked her what she needed/wanted from our relationship. She said she didn't know and needed some time to think about it. I told her I would give her some space to think about it (this was about 2 weeks ago). We agreed that we would still text each other once in a while and say hi and I love you or whatever. Three days later we had another talk (I screwed up and pushed it). I apologized and told her I would give her more space. We had a good talk and she told me that she has wanted to let me go a couple times, but there's something about me she can't let go of. About a 5 days later she was being very loving and social through text and I asked if she wanted to see me. She said she would love to see me, so I went to her house. She was being very receptive to ma and even showing me affection for the first time in about a month. The night was awesome, but the next day I asked her if she still needed space, and she said she wasn't sure. We both decided since she didn't know that meant she did need more space. That was 5 days ago. Since then, she has hardly spoken to me other than she sent a text a couple days ago saying she was thinking about me. I have sent her a couple texts that said I love you, and she has responded, but not with I love you. I was told a while back by her family that she gets scared when it comes to serious relationships, and that if I stuck this all out, that she would come back to me. Also there's the fact that she said there's something about me she can't seem to let go of and the face that she sent me that text saying she was thinking about me a few days ago. (sorry this is a little long winded) She still has not said that we are done or anything like that. My question is, is there anything I can do to get her back or have I lose her for good? What can I do? Please help! Edited June 13, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Paragraphs
jphcbpa Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 At this point there is not much else you can do...the ball is in her court it seems. I would suggest letting her be and give her plenty of rope. Also, not to send i love you texts. let her decide if she wants to be with you. if she does, she will let you know. I would pull back, way back. get on with something you enjoy doing and move forward with your life.
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