Hopeinme Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 My ex is still on facebook and so - I decided to stay away from facebook. However, whenever I log in, i stalk his profile and there's no updates from him. Makes me very miserable after that Helpppp.
Ale khun Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Don't do that please !!! Just imagine how will you feel if you see an update status or a new picture of him . It's better if to stay away I deleted my account after the BU because I knew that I was going to be tempted to check his profile and knowing him that was going to hurt if you don't want to delete your profile just don't log in until he is out of your mind or block him.
Author Hopeinme Posted June 13, 2013 Author Posted June 13, 2013 Thanks i guess i will do just that. From someone who used to log in everday to never checking facebook i feel i missing out!
Ale khun Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Its just temporary think about the cost-benefit this will have in your life it's hard specially with all the social media but you'll survive good luck
CorridorE Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 My ex is still on facebook and so - I decided to stay away from facebook. However, whenever I log in, i stalk his profile and there's no updates from him. Makes me very miserable after that Helpppp. If you log in and there are updates from him, it's going to be so much worse than what you are feeling now and will set you back. Don't self-inflict that pain. Please don't look at his page and use fb as little as possible while you are healing. You're not missing out! Social media is... idk. Drama filled. I try to stay away from it anyway
Author Hopeinme Posted June 13, 2013 Author Posted June 13, 2013 CorridorE, that is very true indeed. I try to stay away as much as I can. Thanks for the advice hope you are good x
Author Hopeinme Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 Its one of those days today where I am just crying in my room. I have lost my appetite, and i am losing too much weight. I feel horrible and I look bad.
whichwayisup Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 My ex is still on facebook and so - I decided to stay away from facebook. However, whenever I log in, i stalk his profile and there's no updates from him. Makes me very miserable after that Helpppp. Block him. It's the only way so you won't lurk his page. Get busy and focus on friends, family and be good to yourself. Break ups hurt and you need to just let yourself grieve the loss, cry and cry some more until your eyes hurt. Have a hot shower and then watch a funny movie. Take each day as it comes, don't worry about tomorrow or next week. Day by day. 1
It's Just Me Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 Block? Forget that. UNFRIEND immediately - that should have been done a long time ago! 1
Author Hopeinme Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 I cant bear to do that. I want to show him how happy I am someday. I need to stay away from Facebook. Thank you so much guys. I try to be positive.
Anela Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 If you block him, then he doesn't have to know that you're sad, and you get to talk to the people in your life who actually matter. ♥ He can hear from others, in the future, how happy you are - which will happen faster if you aren't bombarded with updates from him.
Author Hopeinme Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 I dont post anything on Facebook. And if I block hom, that's it. We do not have mutual friends. I know I should not be holding on. Sigh. I will get through this. You guys on LS all have right? <3
Anela Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 You should be able to hide his posts from your feed, if you click on something to the top-right of his post, and look at your options. Or unsubscribe from his posts, but somehow keep him on your list. I'll have to try with the account I made when I was having trouble with my active one.
Anela Posted June 15, 2013 Posted June 15, 2013 You're welcome. You need to hover the mouse over his name, and take away the option to see him in your news feed. It should be right there. I just asked on FB, and a friend told me how to do it. the same would go for if you have him listed under close friends.
Author Hopeinme Posted June 16, 2013 Author Posted June 16, 2013 Things will get better right? I seem to be going downhill everyday... It sucks so much. I miss the old me.
PR08 Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 Things are only going downhill because you're letting them go downhill.
Author Hopeinme Posted June 16, 2013 Author Posted June 16, 2013 You do have a point. I have been trying jard to be positive, I'm okay sometimes but I find myself caving in when I try for too long. I just keep thinking about all's that happened and it gets the better of me. I am on holiday right now and i return home in 2 weeks. I feel depressed thinking of going back.
PR08 Posted June 16, 2013 Posted June 16, 2013 It's a tough, tough road, but it's an addiction and you have to wean yourself off it. It's times like that when you discover what you're really made of. In the mean time, get off your computer and enjoy your trip!
Author Hopeinme Posted June 16, 2013 Author Posted June 16, 2013 Hehe I should be sleeping at the moment and I just needed to rant. Thanks PROB
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