JohnH90 Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 (edited) Hi guys, Me and my ex girlfriend got together June 2010 everything was great up until January 2012, where we started to argue a lot more and I started to pick fights for no reason etc. we also found out that month she was pregnant (6 months actually) it was a shock at first but we got over it and were both happy. Of course not long after though we were fighting such as that I wanted sex too often and would throw a huff when I didn't get any, which is true ill admit I did do that, and I fully regret that now cuz its part of the reason why we are split, but anyway... Fast forward to about April time a month before my ex was due to have our son. I heard that she has been texting this guy on and off since around January. I didn't see a problem with it at first she said they were only friends and I thought he wasn't anything special looking so I didn't feel too bad about it. He was just "Really nice to her". So our beautiful boy was born and me and her got closer again however that month was very hard with the stress of a newborn and again we fell out a lot. In June she got fed up and split up with me and pretty much got close to that other guy I was telling you about, I wanted her back but she wasn't too interested and I was so upset about it. I still seen my son a few times a week where I would bring him to my house so that wasn't affected thankfully. In august I went on vacation for 2 weeks with friends she suddenly stopped being cold just before I was going to away and wanted to work it out for some reason now? I text her throughout the vacation and she said how much she missed me and what not she also openly admitted that she liked this other guy only because he was really nice to her and we were fighting and that she would have done anything to make me treat her like he did. I came back and we tried again. We went out nightclubbing for a few nights together and it was good until one night we had a row and yep she gave up on me. A month after she started officially dating this guy and they're still together now. I was so jealous for a few months and was begging and what not up until January this year. January we had a huge argument and I literally gave up I refused to go down and collect my baby son because I was so hurt but I still wanted to see my son, so I got my parents to collect him. This went on for 2 months where there was NC between me and my ex. I eventually went down after them 2 months only because both my parents were sick and were unable to collect him. When I went down she looked genuinely happy to see me and made me listen to a couple of songs where she said "remember this song" this was because I heard it when we were together. After that I didn't go down again until around may where my parents stopped going down and I started to go down again. I told her I was collecting him again and that we should be friends for sake of our baby son who was now 1. She went all bitter on me and brought up stuff from how she wanted to be friends for months and tht "I blocked her out of my life" and she brought up how I left her to go on vacation etc. Anyway gave it a few days I went down and she was fine so from then till now we have been getting on but some times she can be REALLY nice which makes me think she likes me still and others time she's just ok with me. Sorry for this being so long but collecting my son has made realize that I still like her and even though her and her boyfriend are still together but have their big ups and downs and he's quite controlling as she's admitted this, I still want to work it out eventually, but just don't know the right approach. I've moved on enough that i don't get jealous over her new relationship anymore and also i have pursued other girls but nothing more than flings . At the mo we only chat about our son but sometimes I have a gut feeling she still likes me while other times i feel she doesn't. Any help would be greatly appreaciated. Currently my plan of action is to only talk when i collect my son where like i said we will only discuss our son. Should i just continue down this route and see what happens down the line? Edited June 13, 2013 by JohnH90
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