b18bme Posted October 11, 2004 Posted October 11, 2004 I feel great!!!!!!!! I was devastated by a breakup with my ex that really tore me apart and I wanted her back so badly, it was by far the low part of my life and the hardest thing I have ever had to go through. She would call and send me text messages when it was a convenience for her and it kept me holding on to hope thinking that maybe she wanted to get back together. Well I finally go sick of it about 3 weeks ago and asked her if she could see us getting back together, she says no I just wanna be friends. I told her to stop contacting me because it hurts to much to just be friends with the girl I love. Well it stopped for awhile but now she sends me texts and calls me again. I love it cuz now I just joke with her and tell her that I know she wants me but can't have me, she still won't hang out so I told her its because she is scared of me and knows if she does she will want me back. She gets all defensive but I think its funny. In the meantime I have been being very confident and dating tons of women some really sweet girls that I have my eye on. It is great to know that 1 month ago I was ready to give up on everything but I stayed strong and now I am happy with myself and loving the single life for awhile. I just want everyone to know that it does get better I know now from experience just be strong and don't give up there is light at the end of the tunnel. I seriously feel so much better that I told her to leave me alone. It feels like the weight has been lifted from my chest and I can finally move on. Now it seems that she is realizing what she did, and for me I thinks its to late because I have met some awesome chicks that are tons of fun.
Weird Posted October 11, 2004 Posted October 11, 2004 haha yeah. I know that situation. Ex says she wants to be friends and that is it and you tell her you don't but they keep trying to stay in your life. You call them on their bluff and say they want to get back together but they continually deny it yet at the same time the way they are acting points to them still having feelings. I just dont get why they cant be honest and admit they have feelings. Is it so wrong to admit that? Do they do it because they are cuatious and afraid that if they say so they may end up getting hurt or the guy will flip the script on them and screw them over? I just don't understand...all it does is it makes them continue to think about stuff and never gives closure to the situation. To me it would seem it would be more stressful on them rather than if they just said "yes I do have feelings and would like to try this out" and could see if it woudl work out or not and if it didn't at least they would ahve closure. I'm going through a situation that is sorta like that. It is so retarded. I shake my head at why I keep wasting my time and why I have to be in love with someone who is crazy like that.
iceisles Posted October 11, 2004 Posted October 11, 2004 My ex still wants to be friends, but I can't help but think her motive for this is to just keep me around as a safety net. I'm afraid that once she sees the grass isn't greener on the other side, she'll be wishing she kept what she had. I agree, though - honesty would make things so much easier. If everyone just told the truth, we wouldn't be sitting here scratching our heads.
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