Sick_nasty Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 My girlfriend and I were going out for 6 months and everything was great except for one problem, my anger. I would never hit or touch her but I would snap at every little thing. We finally broke up 5 days ago and my life was destroyed as well as hers. She blocked my phone number and email and says there was no chance to ever get back together. Two days later I emailed he to say my final goodbye and it turned into a full blown conversation. We both broke down and said we loved each other and wish it could have worked. This conversation kept going and I asked I she still had the same feelings and she said she still is in love with me romantically and cares for me. I asked if it was even possible for us to get back and she said she would be willing to try again if I can get control of my anger 100% but she can't be with me while I change because it breaks her heart too much. We talked again today and she said that she can't love anyone the way she did me and she isn't going to look for anyone else. We then stopped talking because it was too hard for us and we both broke down. So my question is can I get her back or is she just trying to be nice? I know we are both each others first true love and the only reason we broke up is because of my anger issues (which I am working on, not just for her but myself).
Author Sick_nasty Posted June 13, 2013 Author Posted June 13, 2013 Also she says she only left me because she cares an wants me to work on myself so nothing bad happens to me.
Simon Phoenix Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Work on your anger first. Then ask these questions. Honestly, none of the answers matter until you figure out why you act all crazy and take steps to correct that. 1
SimonSerenade Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 You got a good woman if she'll stick by you through that, take care of her, take small steps and figure out where your anger stems from, distance yourself from her completely as soon as you feel bad errrrr sick nasty coming on, its not much but it's a start, you need some damage control and simply not being around her when your like that certainly spares her of any damage.
totallylost5040 Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 There's always a chance. ALWAYS. Unless you physically or mentally abused her. Show her you've changed. Actions speak louder than words man. Be mindful of what you are doing at every moment, be aware of your surroundings. Meditate or something before you see her, make sure you have a game plan, because your anger is an emotion. Have a game plan and sticking to it, could help bring your emotions into check. 1
Roostr Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 keep up that behavior and she will dump you eventually, get help if you cant control that with a woman.
hinatticus Posted June 14, 2013 Posted June 14, 2013 Read my threads. My ex left me over 16 months ago because of my anger. You'll get a good idea of the things I did and experienced throughout the last 16 months. She came back about 2 months ago and we're both in counseling. I've been in counseling for over a year and it works. There's always hope but don't let it destroy you. My journey has been long and painful, but I endured it. Things are on the up and up. I think back at the last 16 months and I still can't believe I am where I am. It's just crazy man. Go see a counselor. Read lots of self help books. Good luck.
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