banksy2020 Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 (edited) I got a question about the no contact thing..... I decided to do that or whatever and I deleted that girl I want another chance with from fb, thats the only social media I had her on besides like txting, or mutual friends, and like not even a day later, she totally went off on me, like asking what she did and that I am always mean to her. I mean I didnt make a big deal about I just deleted no message or nothing, and like I said b4 she hadnt been talking to me neways so I didnt think she would notice, I explained though It was outta sight outta mind, and she was like I dont know if I can forgive you if you wanna come back into my life and for me to have a nice life? I mean I am with you how there isnt really much I can do to restart things but what is her deal? Edited June 12, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
TaraMaiden Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 What do you think it means? Work it out, banksy. She liked the attention. You've been texting her, and now she sees that where it's got her, is blanked on FaceBook. And she liked the attention. Attention, mind. Not you. She's not interested in YOU. She's interested in the flattering attention she was getting. If she was interested in you, she would have said so. "Coming back into her life" is a typically dramatic thing to say. you were already IN her life. You hadn't left it. So how can you come back into someone's life if you hadn't left it? No. What she meant was, "I've been dangling the carrot, and now you've stopped chasing it. I would happily have carried on dangling the carrot, but you decided to not take the bait. Man, that pisses me off! I like the attention, so I'll make a suitably dramatic remark to try to get you to notice me again." Man you dodged a bullet there! Glad you have now gone total NC! Yes??
Author banksy2020 Posted June 12, 2013 Author Posted June 12, 2013 ya makes sense, but Ive decided to stick with it.
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