Marek Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 I've tried both POF and OKCupid and haven't had any luck. There's this one girl who chats to me and we've sent each other over 50 messages yet she's not ready to "meet in real life." Another has been on OKCupid for nearly two years. She claimed she has had 2 dates in that time but they didn't work out. Practically every time I'm on there so is she. So I asked her out for coffee. She replied: "Not yet. I'm just not ready for it. Please don't push the issue." WTF?! I think these girls have psychiatric problems of some sort. It's all too bizarre. I mean who stays on a site for 2 years straight and only goes on 2 dates? And then when I ask her, after about 70 messages, she tells me not to "push the issue."
Fitgirl_xO Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 Last guy I dated from PoF ended up stabbing me, was an alcoholic, a liar & was sleeping with me & everyone else. Said he wanted a real relationship with me, but wasn't affectionate unless we were already asleep & I'd wake up to his tongue down my throat & him trying to screw me. Had a drink with another one from the same website. My BFF happened to be there, he tried to pick her up instead. She may have had some scary ass experiences on there. I know I'm probably done with that site for good. Or she could possibly be taken & just seeing if there's something better than what she currently has.
CryForNoOne Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 Why on earth would you let it get to 50 or 70 messages??? I ask for a number within 3-5 messages and would end contact after at absolute most about 10 messages. Otherwise you're just filtering until only nut jobs are left...
FitChick Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 She probably has a boyfriend. Or she looks nothing like her photos. 2
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