yuvrajsen Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 me an my friend who is girl were very close, she was loving me even i loved her we were like bf an gf, but last year she left me cos i dint accept, tat time i realized how much i love her cos my feelings have changed, i told everything but she dint come back, an said want only friendship, though have feelings for her i got ready but she started ignoring avoiding me, after 1 month i met an said if u want to do like this then ill leave you she started crying an said need you, i felt bad an said ok i wont leave you, but after 2,3 days again same avoiding me ignoring to answer, i asked her many times if you need me then y doing like this, from 2 months doing the same every time m only msging her 1st, if i dint then she is not talking, if text her first giving many excuses, if i asked avoiding to answer,m very much confused what i should do??i want be her best friend again, actually i love her but any how controlling the feelings but she is not talking properly with me as b4:confused::confused:
Author yuvrajsen Posted June 12, 2013 Author Posted June 12, 2013 me an my friend who is girl were very close, she was loving me even i loved her we were like bf an gf, but last year she left me cos i dint accept, tat time i realized how much i love her cos my feelings have changed, i told everything but she dint come back, an said want only friendship, though have feelings for her i got ready but she started ignoring avoiding me, after 1 month i met an said if u want to do like this then ill leave you she started crying an said need you, i felt bad an said ok i wont leave you, but after 2,3 days again same avoiding me ignoring to answer, i asked her many times if you need me then y doing like this, from 2 months doing the same every time m only msging her 1st, if i dint then she is not talking, if text her first giving many excuses, if i asked avoiding to answer,m very much confused what i should do??i want be her best friend again, actually i love her but any how controlling the feelings but she is not talking properly with me as b4:confused::confused:
Author yuvrajsen Posted June 12, 2013 Author Posted June 12, 2013 me an my friend who is girl were very close, she was loving me even i loved her we were like bf an gf, but last year she left me cos i dint accept, tat time i realized how much i love her cos my feelings have changed, i told everything but she dint come back, an said want only friendship, though have feelings for her i got ready but she started ignoring avoiding me, after 1 month i met an said if u want to do like this then ill leave you she started crying an said need you, i felt bad an said ok i wont leave you, but after 2,3 days again same avoiding me ignoring to answer, i asked her many times if you need me then y doing like this, from 2 months doing the same every time m only msging her 1st, if i dint then she is not talking, if text her first giving many excuses, if i asked avoiding to answer,m very much confused what i should do??i want be her best friend again, actually i love her but any how controlling the feelings but she is not talking properly with me as b4:confused::confused: plz guys help me out
TaraMaiden Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 I believe you received all the help you needed yesterday when I responded to your other (now duplicate) thread. Did you read the No Contact Guide in my signature? I understand why you are being persistent. Because what I told you is not what you want to hear. But unfortunately, the best advice you are going to receive is that this IS OVER. It's finished. She has made it very clear to you. And you clinging, begging, pleading, crying, being needy or creepy will simply push her away further. Any attempts to reconcile on your part, will be resisted with equal force - if not greater - on hers. Read the No Contact guide, as I advised yesterday. And move on. It's the only thing left to you, to do. 1
pink_sugar Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 I believe you received all the help you needed yesterday when I responded to your other (now duplicate) thread. Did you read the No Contact Guide in my signature? I understand why you are being persistent. Because what I told you is not what you want to hear. But unfortunately, the best advice you are going to receive is that this IS OVER. It's finished. She has made it very clear to you. And you clinging, begging, pleading, crying, being needy or creepy will simply push her away further. Any attempts to reconcile on your part, will be resisted with equal force - if not greater - on hers. Read the No Contact guide, as I advised yesterday. And move on. It's the only thing left to you, to do. Oh man, my brother definitely needs to see your NC guide, TM. He's been after his ex-fiance like flies on *****, even though it's clear she is done with the relationship.
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