MobileMan626 Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 (edited) So confused right now. Me and my Ex girlfriend had a talk on the phone earlier for about 30 min in which i was honest with her and told her how i feel. I first started off by asking her how she feels about us.She said that she still feels the same, Anger, Resentment but she's trying to get past it because she doesn't want to spend her life thinking negative and she doesn't want to bring that attitude into a future relationship with our friendship or someone other than me. I told her i still have feelings for her and i can't just be her friend. We talked about the issues of our relationship for a bit , i address them and asked if she would let me show her a new side of me . She said "Ok". We were suppose to meet for coffee but she keeps having something else to do. The crazy thing is i direct films aswell and she agreed to be apart of the cast awhile ago. The shooting is next week on a Saturday and she said shell be there forsure. I feel like she's using me just so she can get some exposure but doesn't want anything to do with me on an emotional level. Ugh i'm very sad at the moment Take it easy on me. Edited June 12, 2013 by MobileMan626
Aerrie Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 How long has it been since you broke up? If it is not years, you are doing it ALL WRONG. IMO it is not that long, as she sais that her feelings are still the same - anger and resentment. There is no hope, you should not even be contacting her whatsoever. Read the No Contact guide on this forum and do your best to follow it. No "new you" can fix this, she is done.
TaraMaiden Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 Is her part a big part? Is she vital to the scene/film/programme? Does she have an understudy? Get something organised - but tell her that her presence is no longer required on set. Go No Contact (thread in my signature) and stick with it. Remember, if she contacts you - and you respond - you're breaking it. DON'T BREAK IT!!
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