Eternal Sunshine Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 It's actually more telling on the first date. They do all they talking - friendzoned. Sit there like a wall flower - crazy about me... Yep, that's how I am I have real trouble reading extroverts though. For example, I really think that I had a connecting moment with an extrovert, where he shared something really personal with me. Then I overhear him later say the same thing to Sam and Judy downstairs Every interaction with an extrovert has to be taken with a grain of salt. He likely had similar interactions with 10 other people just that day. With an introvert, it has much more meaning. 2
ses Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 I love to compliment people irrespective of their age or sex. It feels great to make another person feel good, too. Sometimes flirting can be cultural so I've learned to not read too much into it unless the guy directly tells me of his intentions with me. Enjoy it! Put a smile on your face and find something genuine to tell someone. I love sincere compliments.
Eternal Sunshine Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 Yep, that's how I am I have real trouble reading extroverts though. For example, I really think that I had a connecting moment with an extrovert, where he shared something really personal with me. Then I overhear him later say the same thing to Sam and Judy downstairs Every interaction with an extrovert has to be taken with a grain of salt. He likely had similar interactions with 10 other people just that day. With an introvert, it has much more meaning. To add on this; as I wrote before about my crush on my boss for years and years. I always thought we had a connection. However, over the years I realized that he is an UBER extrovert. He shares all kinds of personal info with just about anyone, where I don't (well except the LS ). I completly read the situation wrongly, we never had anything 1
rogerskevin Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 I compliment people all the time. I'm a super friendly personable person though so its part of my personality. Anywho, I guess what I'm saying is you never know. She could have just been bice or interested, you won't know till you ask! jaclynrae’s reply thinking seems to fine as being friendly with unknown can be the part of personality.
Emilia Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 To add on this; as I wrote before about my crush on my boss for years and years. I always thought we had a connection. However, over the years I realized that he is an UBER extrovert. He shares all kinds of personal info with just about anyone, where I don't (well except the LS ). I completly read the situation wrongly, we never had anything I work with salesguys and they are the same. You can't take anything they say seriously regardless whether they are sober or drunk.
thecrucible Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 I compliment people a lot. It's sort of a natural thing with me. I sometimes wonder if I am hard to read because of it. I do not deliberately lead people on. I don't give compliments out as a game. It is who I am. I am also very physically affectionate and love to give out hugs. I am quite touchy with most men and enjoy flirting (like it's second nature). I would do this with every guy and not just the ones I'm interested in. But if I am VERY interested in the guy, I'm a lot less liberal with my compliments and less touchy feely because I'm afraid of putting him off. When I am into someone, I'm shyer. If I'm not, I'm pretty flirty. Confusing, right?
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