mercedeschick Posted October 11, 2004 Posted October 11, 2004 I have great sex with my boyfriend, but recently I told him I enjoy to watch lesbian porn from time to time. Boy, do I regret ever telling him!! Of course, being a guy, he got so excited and wants to see me to have sex with another girl. I've thought about it, but I would never pursue this in real life; just fantasy. The possible alternative is watching lesbian porn with him, but I don't feel comfortable with that either. I wouldn't say I'm porn-star material, with the fake breasts and platimum blond hair, but I am good looking. I feel he just wants other women to be in the equation. I firmly told him I am not into threesomes, and he said he just wants to f*** me while I'm getting it on with the other girl, and not touch her...MY ASS!!! I just don't know what to do!!
Merin Posted October 11, 2004 Posted October 11, 2004 Stick to what you believe to be right and best for you and the relationship. OR tell him it is also your fantasy to have another guy in the bedroom... see his face do this> Seriously.. IF you don't want to do it, then explain to him that while it is a "Fantasy" that is exactly what it will remain.. maybe watching the lesbian porn together could be a compromise.
honey2005 Posted October 11, 2004 Posted October 11, 2004 You've told him no. Tell him again, and if he keeps trying to pressure you, dump him. No use making excuses and worrying, because when you break it down, if he won't accept that you say "no" and are not comfortable with it, then he doesn't respect you or your wishes.
Recommended Posts