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When should I contact her next?


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Last week I sent this girl a message on Facebook that I think she's cute and I'd like to get to know her better. I've never talked to her before, just a random Facebook friend I've never talked to. Last night she finally messages me back, and we chatted online for about 1 1/2 hours. When should I say hey to her next? I don't want to wait forever, but I also don't want to push it to hard and too fast! Any advice?

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Ask about her interests. Get to know her better. Be interested in her as a person, and that should help form a connection. Relax! Being nervous is cute, but don't sweat all the details. You'll be fine. :) If you feel ready, then casually ask her for coffee or a bite to eat.

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I would say wait 1 day...MAYBE 2. Not more than that. Any more, and she'll think you're not into her. Any less, and she might not be into it since you don't know each other well.

 

Once you guys know one another better/have chatted for a while, you can make it a daily thing.

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