leonai Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 i broke up with my ex girlfriend 7 months ago 4 months ago we met twice, and kept in contact after that. though she did tell me when we met that the relationship was in trouble before i broke up with her though i had no i idea at the time, but told me that she was thinking about me, did not know what to feel and that she was impatient to find a solution but we both ended up deciding to leave it to destiny. a month ago i called her to ask her to meet because i was starting to have feelings again. she agreed, warned me not to stand her up like some incidents that happened twice where she invited me for dinner but i did not attend and forgot to cancel. and told me that she will check her work time table and get back to me. she called me after a week but i did not answer because by then i decided to move on because i assumed she had done the same. she texted me 4 days later, i did not reply, 4 days later she texted me again telling me her grandfather had passed away i replied and offered my condolences, she replied to me asking about me, why i did not answer her call, and said that she missed me and was hoping to see me when she is back. i did not reply, a week later she texted me again saying that she has seen that i did not want to know anything about her and thanked me for being so clear. i blocked her on Facebook in order to move on and cut contact, after 2 weeks i felt strong enough and unblocked her and sent her a text to see how she was doing. she replied to me asking me out for coffee in order to update each other, am quiet busy at the moment so i told her i'll get back to her when am free, she told me to let her know, and she wishes to see me as soon as i can, and that she would call me one of these days
aisuru Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 I can't tell... Are you in to this girl? If so, you would make time. If not? Tell her you're just not interested in catching up right now. I'm amazed she continues to contact you while you play games with her. 1
totallylost5040 Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 i feel ya man.... the girl that dumped me contacted me 2 weeks after and asked how i was doing and all that through email.... she was asking if she could get pics of our vacation together.... i was just short and sweet and said i'll do it when i get the chance, but she's been very light on the conversations with me, she's excited to talk to me through chat (using tons of exclamation points for no apparent reason) which means absolutely nothing but I decided to block her again and just wait it out for myself. She was just checking up to see how i was doing and used the pictures as an excuse to contact me. I told her I would give them to her later and she told me not to rush.... so I'm thinking... if you didn't want them so soon.. then WHY ask me two weeks afterwards? mmmm yah.. don't think so. She can wait. That being said, if she wants to meet up, I would say let her. See what she's got to say. Keep it short and simple.
justletgo07 Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 I'm not sure what your objective is here. We're you the dumper? Are you interested in her? It sounds like you're just playing games and being hurtful, and I think you should stop. Either tell her you want to try again or tell her you don't want to contact her anymore.
flitzanu Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 i broke up with my ex girlfriend 7 months ago 4 months ago we met twice, and kept in contact after that. though she did tell me when we met that the relationship was in trouble before i broke up with her though i had no i idea at the time, but told me that she was thinking about me, did not know what to feel and that she was impatient to find a solution but we both ended up deciding to leave it to destiny. a month ago i called her to ask her to meet because i was starting to have feelings again. she agreed, warned me not to stand her up like some incidents that happened twice where she invited me for dinner but i did not attend and forgot to cancel. and told me that she will check her work time table and get back to me. she called me after a week but i did not answer because by then i decided to move on because i assumed she had done the same. she texted me 4 days later, i did not reply, 4 days later she texted me again telling me her grandfather had passed away i replied and offered my condolences, she replied to me asking about me, why i did not answer her call, and said that she missed me and was hoping to see me when she is back. i did not reply, a week later she texted me again saying that she has seen that i did not want to know anything about her and thanked me for being so clear. i blocked her on Facebook in order to move on and cut contact, after 2 weeks i felt strong enough and unblocked her and sent her a text to see how she was doing. she replied to me asking me out for coffee in order to update each other, am quiet busy at the moment so i told her i'll get back to her when am free, she told me to let her know, and she wishes to see me as soon as i can, and that she would call me one of these days i dont get the point of your question. you ket contacting her after you dumped her and then kept standing her up. then you blocked her, two weeks later you unblocked her and contacted her again. it sounds like she should be asking what your intentions are, instead of you wonder why she wants to have coffee.i
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