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moving on from someone that doesnt want to be with you?


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Theres this guy ive always liked. A friend and i were chasing him at the same time and he choose the friend. I was hurt but got over it. Well they dated for over a year and broke up. Well i ran into the guy couple months after they broke up.

 

He was depressed bout their split and i tried to be there for him. We ended up hooking up a few times but then he was honest and said im not into any relationships but i want u in my life as a friend. I accepted this. Tried anyway. ..he started acting weird ..ei say were just friends then get jealous when id hang out with his friend. Well he sent texts bout how beautiful i am and all this but i didnt want to fall for it.

 

Like a month later he comes back into town and we spent a fair amount of time together. Go to the beach and go for dinner...he reached out to me alot...we were at this party and he said again..i think your beautiful but i dont want anything more... i dont want to be just sleeping together either... im not ready for anything...i want to fall in love and start a family.. i said i understood and acted like i didnt expect anything more.....well that night we hooked up again and hung out for like 2 days.. i realized i need to back off. Guess i am just so lonely and he treated me nice...

 

 

He came to meet up and hang out with ne and friends and he vagouly said hes going to europe for the summer by himself.it came as a suprise and i immdently couldnt help but feel sad. We parted ways yesterday. I feel so alone even though he. Treated me with respect the entire time and was always honest. I guess i feel sad the fact hes out living his life while im stuck in this small town dwelling on him. Wishing i could be the one going on a trip..and wishing he liked me as much as i did with him.

 

I just want to be free from him and get rid of this horrible feeling like knots in my heart...how can i finally move on from this guy ,??? Any words of encouragment..

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