Author JR91 Posted June 15, 2013 Author Posted June 15, 2013 She texted me this morning saying she thinks she made a mistake. I told her to think about it because i dont want to get my hopes up. I guess come monday we will see if fixing it is possible or just break it off.
Author JR91 Posted June 17, 2013 Author Posted June 17, 2013 Well, we have been talking and I guess her final decision is that we aren't compatible. That being said she says she is willing to stick with me and help me get over her. we aren't broken up but its inevitable Im not getting my hopes up that she will start liking me like she used to again but she says she doesn't care how long it takes she is willing to stay with me and help me out through the feelings. She says she still loves me and that its never gonna go away. Have you guys been in a situation like this, will it work? At this point i am very sad but she is willing to stay with me so either she will endup changing her mind and we'll both be happy or ill get over her eventually.
undergroundlife13 Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Shes stringing you along, shes not going to change her mind. You honestly want to be with someone because you want to, when she doesnt?
Author JR91 Posted June 17, 2013 Author Posted June 17, 2013 You are right but shes really nice and mature and she says she has never given anyone the chance she is giving me because I have been really cool out of all her relationships. I duno i wouldn't wanna lose her as a friend. Call me dumb but i guess ill learn by going through it. She said one way or another its going to end, so either u call it quits or stick around and learn by experience. I dont think i have the will power to call it quits :/
undergroundlife13 Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 I understand but what does the title mean at this point? She most likely is seeing someone else from the sounds of it...
Author JR91 Posted June 17, 2013 Author Posted June 17, 2013 We are still a couple, shes an honest person. If she was seeing anyone or planned to I'm sure she would have told me. I Wonder if my situation is rare.
undergroundlife13 Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 She told you a break up is inevitable...thats not a couple. Shes actually not being a nice person by telling you to either end it or wait for her to end it. Im sorry, i know its hard to accept, but it is over. the title means nothing at this point
Author JR91 Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 We were talking again and she says she feels confused about us. She feels we are a good couple.
undergroundlife13 Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 She is stringing you along. There should be no confusion..
Author JR91 Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 (edited) So i phoned her and asked her if she still felt confused, she said no that she feels the same as before unhappy with the relationship. So decided to end it no hard feelings. We still plan on being friends but made it clear that no matter what may happen between us it wont have anything to do with us wanting to get back together. Edited June 18, 2013 by JR91
undergroundlife13 Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 Good for you, im really sorry but it needed to be done. I wouldnot be her friend though, theres no way you will heal.
Author JR91 Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 yeah one step forward, we have been discussing what will become of us. We agreed to keep dating but not be exclusive and see where it gets us.
Mack05 Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 yeah one step forward, we have been discussing what will become of us. We agreed to keep dating but not be exclusive and see where it gets us. Is that how highly you value yourself? To be someones @#%& buddy until she finds someone better? Until u learn to want and expect more from yourself then these are the scenarios u find yourself in. Best advice...call her tell her this arrangement doesnt suit and disappear. Then go look for your balls...
undergroundlife13 Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 Is that how highly you value yourself? To be someones @#%& buddy until she finds someone better? Until u learn to want and expect more from yourself then these are the scenarios u find yourself in. Best advice...call her tell her this arrangement doesnt suit and disappear. Then go look for your balls... I was trying to be nice about it but hes right. Non exclusive means shes ****ing others and most likely has been. Redeem yourself and walk away. She has you right where she wants you..
Author JR91 Posted October 23, 2013 Author Posted October 23, 2013 (edited) Well guys, its been a while since i checked in n im an emotional wreck. a lot has happened since i last wrote and sad to say im still not free from her. I love her too much but I know I shouldnt be around her anymore. What the **** is wrong with me. Let me tell u guys we got back together around july or august, cant really remember. It was going great until september I messed up drove drunk and she dumped me. ever since then ive been a ****ing wreck because we still hangout only now its different shes talking to people, she likes someone else. oh thats not even the worst part, she ****ed one of my so called friends about 2 days ago while i was passed out in the living room. I ask myself why i do this to myself. I cant let her go i feel like I need to keep my word that we would always stay friends. I just cant believe my friend made me trust him n went n ****ed her. she was drunk but had been wanting to get laid cause she was really wasted, worst part is she told me she remembers getting into it. She drank because she saw me there talking to a female friend and said she wasnt mentally prepared. I cant believe she had sex with my friend I cant believe where life is going right now I feel stuck in life. like i have all these emotions inside at once but I feel frozen I dont know what to do. ah i know you guys r gonna bash me for this but I duno i believe shes a wonderful person n dont want her out of my life. I feel so depressed. any advice or insight. has anyone experienced a similar case? Edited October 23, 2013 by JR91 1
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