Delilah1623 Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 I am nearing the end of my relationship and have an internal debate going on. We went for a 4 day trip last weekend which he paid for the majority of even though I offered to pay my way. He has since admitted that he was worried about money the whole time, he has plenty it is just an anxiety thing for him, and said that he wishes he had told me we should cancel or postpone the trip. I recently sold a house I own in another state and received a large check. I am wondering of I should give him money to cover the cost of the trip. About $500, it was just a trip to a big city a few hours away. I feel guilty knowing that he is obsessing over money all the time and feel like he spent it out of obligation and not because he really wanted to go. Is this a good or a bad idea? I don't know if it will make him feel emasculated or thankful. It would definitely alleviate my guilt over the whole thing. As much as I try to convince myself otherwise and have hope I know deep down our relationship is at its end.
Author Delilah1623 Posted June 11, 2013 Author Posted June 11, 2013 Sorry. I think I put this in the wrong place. Ill repost in the breaking up section.
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