Tkpoy Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 (edited) We weren't in a relationship, but pretty close! He lives 47 miles away! I love himso much, i remember when i first met the amazing fella! He was so special! Still is! He inboxed me on fb. And i gave him my number i thought we were gonna just be texting buddies even though i did want more from him! He called me that night and i felt special cause he said he doesn't like talking on the phone! I didn't talk to him for a while and i went to fb and saw his ex say, im glad we decided to work thing out and they said ily to eachother, i found out they were together a year and some months before, and later that they weren't back together just texting again! But two months later he wrote a tbh (to be honest) and i liked it nd he told me to hit him up! I did and he texted me 16hours later! I said bye One month later now September he started texting me goodmorning and i liked the warm feeling i got when we texted and then in october we said ily! I wanted to say it a long time ago but i couldn't, christmas time was great! We texted all day then when New Years came he didn't text me back after like nine, but i was drunk and was texting dumb stuff to piss him off! I went to twitter and saw the same ex saying texting him to bring in the new year! I was pissed, but i couldn't say anything! I texted him the next morning and said sorry! I made a choice that i would give him space so from January to April the only thing we text to eachither was gm ily! April i saw that other girls we were starting to realize him because he hadbstarted working out!March 28 , a girl i been cool with since fifth grade was calling him cute! I tried to tell her weve known eachother ten months and i didn't want her to talk to him! She told him and he got mad at me and have been ignoring me until this day! I texted him 7 times and this morning i texted him and said I'm calling you tonight we need to talk this out! I love this dude he's so differ no man ha been in my life more than two months before because I'm waiting into marriage to ****, but he didn't care and said he would marry me one day! I don't know, should i call him tonight!! I need this man! Edited June 11, 2013 by Tkpoy 70 not 7 tims
CherryT Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 Don't be so desperate. You hardly know the guy and he hasn't even taken you out on a date. He is telling you what he's probably telling many other women. Let a man chase you and show you that he wants to get to know you better. Don't give it all to him for no work... how do you love someone who you rarely knows and puts little effort other then texting you words you want to hear? Also 47 miles is nothing. Many people make more effort going half way around the world than this guy is. I say, move on and find someone who's willing to put in effort and not play games. 1
justwhoiam Posted June 13, 2013 Posted June 13, 2013 (edited) Is it just me or I really understood the following: - he's a FB friend - he lives across the bridge two towns away - he called and doesn't like talking on the phone - he has some (ex) girl desperately after him and he's responding well - the OP is mastering how to rise to the bait - a 16-hour delay in texting is overly exciting - excitement deserves a well-thought "bye" - interest is better shown with resuming texting after a month of non-texting - for New Year's eve he went MIA after nine (pm?) - OP offers him a random 'sorry' - for four months, he and OP sent each other only one text, namely "gm ily" (possibly every day) - as soon as he starts working out during Spring, girls start to drool over him - OP threatens a potential rival, he gets mad and starts ignoring OP - OP is turning into a stalker Bottom line: no matter how much you need a man, if you're the only one having the need. First, pull yourself together. Edited June 13, 2013 by justwhoiam
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