la2006 Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 My ex of 3.5 years broke up with me 6 weeks ago. I haven't seen her or talked to her for 5 weeks but yesterday one of our mutual friends retweeted a message of hers that said "this is not going to be one of THOSE types of relationships" followed by "bring your A game because my expectations are high". I'm assuming this is about a new guy... Of course after seeing that tweet I had to click on her name and read everything else she tweeted the last few weeks. It seemed like everything she wrote had an underlying message and related to life/breakups/or relationships. She even wrote about how she gets over things quickly but if thats the case why are most of her tweets related to her situation? I've met, dated, even hooked up with new girls since but I don't post any of that on any social media out of respect because a lot of her friends still follow me and like me. I don't understand why she feels the need to put all her business out there for everyone to see. Could it be just for me to see and try to get a reaction out of me or does she sincerely have a new person and is over me? I really want to call her out on it but of course NC would be broken by then. I just want to move on and was doing really good overall but I took 10 steps backwards yesterday after reading everything and now I'm just wondering wtf is going on? Is she just trying to hurt me or might she really have some new person already?
SimonSerenade Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 Man that's horrible, I know how you feel, checking up on an ex is a sweet temptation but it's not worth what your going to see, your not a part of her world anymore and that's going to tear you up inside, I'd say you made it a little hard on yourself by hooking up with other women because now you'll be thinking of her doing the same thing, I've seen how my ex talks to guys, unfortunately I saw it when I was with her and it is painful and life shattering, I wouldn't risk putting myself through that again by checking up on her. Fact is it doesn't matter what she means with her posts, it could very well be about you but your never going to know unless she comes to you and tells you, how likely is that going to be?, I would advise you to never look her up again and stay silent, I know that's hard but it's out of your hands, what good would talking to her do?, right now I still feel like calling my ex and shouting at her, she talks to a guy we once agreed we'd never speak to again because he is a horrible person, I felt betrayed when I saw that but you got to be a man and suck I up, unfortunately we don't have a say anymore.
mtnbiker3000 Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 Well, I hope she showered and shaved first That was bad, but I couldn't resist... Sorry, didn't mean to make light of your thread, just the title cracked me up... 1
SimonSerenade Posted June 12, 2013 Posted June 12, 2013 Well, I hope she showered and shaved first That was bad, but I couldn't resist... Sorry, didn't mean to make light of your thread, just the title cracked me up... I JUST got it ahaha
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